When a deep disappointment comes your way, remember how Joseph handled Mary's news that she was pregnant. Joseph took his hurt to God and allowed his walk with God to lead him to understand what was happening. Whatever it is that has your heart tied in knots; it is possible that this very trial could strengthen your faith so that God could use you for a more significant part in the redemptive story than you ever imagined you could play. This is what God did with Joseph, and God wants to do with you.