Crown Yourself

What does "being stuck" mean to you? Could it be masking unresolved grief rather than just confusion?

 

Neal Phalora is an entrepreneur and life healer  He helps high achievers heal their most critical relationships, return to innovation (ROI), and take back their time.  He helps clients create radical change with a 14-year background in transformation and brain science according to the WELLTH Method.  Neal's coaching work has been featured in national TV spots, The HuffPost, and as a multiple Walk the Talk Speaker.  It is on his journey out of chronic illness and anxiety he found lasting change through rewiring the levels of mind in the body.

 

In this episode of the Crown Yourself podcast, host Kimberly Spencer and guest Neal NEO Phalora discuss the profound themes of personal development, parenting, and conscious living. Neal shares his journey as a parent, emphasizing that raising children involves significant personal growth for the parents. They explore the value of meaningful experiences over material possessions, cultural exposure through travel and food, and the importance of emotional intelligence (EQ) in both personal and professional realms. The conversation highlights the challenges of societal conditioning, the necessity of vulnerability in leadership, and the transformative power of embracing one's true desires and intuition.

In this episode, you will learn…

• Personal development and its impact on parenting.


• The significance of meaningful experiences over material possessions.


• The role of cultural exposure through travel and food in child education.


• Confidence building and vulnerability in leadership.


• The importance of emotional intelligence (EQ) in personal and professional relationships.


• Societal conditioning affecting the ability to ask for help, particularly among women.


• The concept of "lone wolf syndrome" and the need for community support.


• The neuroscience behind emotional intelligence and intuition.


• The relationship between buying habits and selling techniques.


• The role of grief in personal transformation and identity shifts.

Enjoy, sovereigns!

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Moments of Note:

Shame and Personal Growth (00:00:00)

Neal discusses the deep-rooted shame people carry and its connection to personal development through entrepreneurship.

 

Introduction to the Podcast (00:00:50)

Kimberly introduces the podcast's theme of conscious leadership and personal transformation.

 

Conscious Parenting and Education (00:01:03)

Neal shares insights on the importance of intentional parenting and the shift towards world schooling.

 

Personal Development Through Parenting (00:02:02)

Neal reflects on how parenting has catalyzed his own personal growth and development.

 

Meaningful Experiences vs. Material Possessions (00:03:08)

Discussion on prioritizing experiences over material items in family life.

 

Defining Meaningful Experiences (00:03:18)

Neal emphasizes the importance of being present in the moment for meaningful experiences.

 

Cultural Exposure Through Food (00:04:08)

Neal highlights the value of experiencing local cuisines while traveling.

 

Traveling with an Open Mind (00:05:32)

Kimberly shares her husband’s approach to experiencing local food when traveling.

 

Building Confidence Through Uncomfortable Experiences (00:06:54)

Neal explains how confidence develops through repeatedly facing discomfort.

 

Perception of Success and Vulnerability (00:09:41)

Neal discusses how vulnerability can foster deeper connections in business.

 

Women Asking for Support (00:12:24)

Kimberly addresses challenges women face in asking for help and support.

 

The Importance of Receiving Help (00:13:23)

Neal talks about the societal tendency to reject help and the need for an identity shift.

 

Compliments and Receiving (00:14:49)

Neal presents an experiment on how adults react to compliments, revealing issues with receiving.

 

The Struggle to Receive (00:15:37)

Kimberly shares her journey of learning to receive compliments and support.

 

Mind-Body Connection in Leadership (00:16:26)

Neal explains the significance of understanding the mind-body connection for effective leadership.

 

Unlocking Intuition (00:18:23)

Neal discusses how to tap into intuition as a powerful tool for decision-making.

 

Women’s Intuition and Sales (00:20:25)

They highlight how women’s intuition plays a crucial role in successful sales strategies.

 

Scarcity in Sales (00:22:03)

Kimberly reflects on the negative effects of scarcity tactics in sales and decision-making.

 

Understanding Buying and Selling (00:22:59)

Neal discusses the connection between buying habits and selling skills, emphasizing emotional aspects of purchasing.

 

The Elements of Desire (00:24:07)

Neal outlines the four components necessary for valid desire: earth, air, water, and fire.

 

Personal Shopping Experience (00:25:11)

Kimberly shares her recent shopping experience, reflecting on authenticity and desire in her purchases.

 

Acting as If in Manifestation (00:27:08)

Kimberly discusses the misconception of "acting as if" in manifestation and the importance of mindful spending.

 

Judgment and Comparison in Buying (00:28:25)

Neal highlights how judgment and comparison influence purchasing decisions and the importance of emotional intelligence.

 

The Experience of Ownership (00:31:11)

Neal explains the value of experiencing ownership before making a purchase to avoid impulsive decisions.

 

Consumerism and Receivership (00:32:15)

Kimberly questions if fast consumerism affects our ability to receive and appreciate ownership.

 

Extending Gratification (00:33:33)

Neal emphasizes the importance of extending gratification over instant gratification for long-term enjoyment.

 

Defining Fulfillment (00:34:43)

Neal shares his definition of fulfillment as living a life without regrets and creating meaningful experiences.

 

The Concept of Balance (00:37:22)

Neal discusses the myth of balance, advocating for embracing all aspects of life harmoniously.

 

Healing from Shame (00:43:19)

Neal reflects on the challenges of integrating shame and how it affects personal and financial growth.

 

Understanding Grief (00:47:06)

Exploration of how feeling stuck often relates to unprocessed grief.

 

Coping with Loss (00:48:31)

Discussion on societal responses to grief and the need for emotional support.

 

Collective Grief in Society (00:49:01)

Acknowledgment of the widespread grief experienced globally, especially post-COVID.

 

Personal Grief Processing (00:49:49)

Sharing a coaching experience about processing grief through creative expression.

 

Healing Through Ritual (00:53:05)

Importance of developing rituals to aid in the grief process.

 

Navigating Grief Dynamics (00:54:06)

Personal reflections on grief and the transformative experiences it can bring.

 

Letting Go for Growth (00:55:57)

Discussion on the necessity of letting go to embrace new identities and success.

 

Finding Support (00:58:23)

Information on how to connect with Neil for personal growth and support.

 

Mentions + Additional Resources:

Connect with Neal NEO Phalora

WEBSITE https://www.thebrainwarrior.com/ 

 

SOCIAL MEDIA LINKS

FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/phalora 

INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/nealphalora 

TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@nealphalora 

LINKED IN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nealphalora/

YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@IntentionVision

 

Tools, Websites, and Links

• Crown Yourself: "00:01:03"


• Wealth Matrix Club: "00:58:46"

Books

• The Wild Edge of Sorrow: "00:56:39"


• Grief by Dr. John Connolly: "00:56:43"


• The Game of Life and How to Play It by Florence Scovel Shinn: "00:57:45"


• Dangerous Mystic: "00:54:06"

Videos

• TEDx Talk: "00:08:17"


• Gary Vee Conference: "00:19:59"


• Tom Bilyeu: "00:34:00"

Concepts and Strategies

• Impulse Buying: "00:23:00"


• Extended Gratification: "00:23:00"


• Four Elements of Desire: "00:24:00"


• Optics in Marketing: "00:29:00"


• Ownership Experience: "00:31:00"


• Acting As If: "00:28:00"


• Pendulum of Balance: "00:37:00"

Authors

• Barbara Corcoran: "00:27:00"

 

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