The blog post, "Up Against Ghosts", by The Mindful Modern Mistress, discusses the process of healing from divorce and the challenges of dating after a long-term relationship. The author reflects on her own journey of recovery, which took a decade to fully embrace, and explores the complexities of dating as a trauma survivor. She shares her experience of navigating a dating pool where potential partners often struggle with her past and the complexities of her life as a single mother, kink-friendly individual, and someone who embraces open communication with former lovers. The author acknowledges the need to be mindful of others' perspectives while remaining true to oneself, ultimately advocating for authenticity and understanding in navigating the often-unpredictable world of dating.