Aug 28 2020 74 mins 8
Andy dives in to his own past struggles with porn addiction, as well as how to have sex that makes you feel good about yourself - and her too. Shownotes: NoFap.com: https://nofap.com/ You Can't Afford the Luxury of a Negative Thought: https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#luxury My How to Get Laid on Tinder Guide (also applies to relationships, and meeting girls in person): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide/ The Takeaway: Don't just focus on "I will stop watching porn". Make sure you also have something to work towards - something to replace the porn with. Focusing 100% and going all-in on your goals (especially your dating/sex goals) will give you something to focus on that isn't porn. I struggled for years with a very bad porn addiction; focusing on fixing my sex life was the cure for me. Don't use women to just fulfill a porn fantasy; instead, share that fantasy with them and make it a fun thing you do together. During sex, you can frame things as "I will aim to turn her on like crazy and make her go wild" - rather than "I'm using her to fulfill my porn fantasy".
