Jan 26 2024 46 mins
In this session, Andrea* (not her real name) asked:
(1) I just really like to know, moving forward in my life, a general guide of my life purpose?
(2) You mentioned that the power or magic is in my hands. I kind of resonate with that. It’s just that I don’t know how to get to the point of believing that I deserve it. I don’t think I believe I’m capable, or I don’t know what they see in me. This has always been my fault. So, I’m still on that healing journey in a sense of being proud of myself. For me, I can believe in other people, I can give them hope and all that whenever they need. But when it comes to me, I have a problem seeing myself as that. How do I get out of that? Not from a psychological point, but more from a heart space.
(3) I resonated with what you mentioned since young, that there is something more about my life or about me. And then things happened that I’m very grateful for, even the darker side and life lessons, because it kind of placed me in this mindset where sometimes difficult situations in life, everyone has gone through a lot or a fair bit. Sometimes, it takes a person who can handle very difficult situations in life, to go through whatever we all had to go through. So, I’m just understanding, why me, and how to quantify that?
(4) This is just my own personal truth. It doesn’t necessarily apply to everybody, but it’s something that I maybe feel, or what I went through, or just what I discovered about myself or maybe life in general. So, I’m just trying to understand if I’m even right to think this way. I’ve always believed that life is a paradox. I don’t necessarily believe that bad is bad. And good may not always be good. So, I believe that there is always such a thing as cause and effect, whether it’s a good cause or bad cause, but a bad cause may not necessarily have forever bad effects. Sometimes, you have to be a bad person, in order to be a good person in such a way. So, I don’t know if this concept that I’ve learned is right or wrong?
(5) I just want to know more about my love life in the near future. Not asking really about far away, but maybe more of like a sense of hope. I’m not ashamed to admit that I would like to have someone eventually, but I don’t want to get into something that is like the wrong person. So, I just want some clarity on that department of my life.
(6) Any final messages for me?
Read the transcript here.
Credits to music used: lemonmusicstudio, The Cradle of Your Soul; RelaxingTime, Autumn Music No.4