Kinkyboys Podcast

Aug 28 2020 40

Two london boys exploring the ins and outs, kinks and roles of the gay bdsm and kink scene

Important addendum on Silicone body mods
Dec 04 2017 2 mins  
Recently, we had a guest who discussed his experiences with silicone injections and genital enlargement. As part of that podcast, we discussed the risks and concerns associated with that procedure. However, a recent incident — unrelated to this specific show or its guest — has encouraged us to draft an additional, more specific warning. On November 16, a well-known silicone injection user — @gitbigger on Twitter — died due to lung failure, which was brought on by an injection gone wrong. We’ve been told that the person performing the injection accidentally hit a vein, and that this allowed the silicone to travel into life-threatening places. Our condolences go out to his family, his partner and his friends. Before undertaking any BDSM activity, it’s very, very important to both know and plan for all the possible things that can go wrong. But some activities are not guaranteed safe under any circumstances. Unlicensed medical procedures fall under that heading. Even licensed surgical procedures can be risky, but without proper licensure and supervision, the risks are significantly greater. That includes more than just injury and disfigurement. “Death” is most definitely on that list of risks. As always, the major choices in your life are your own to make. Just think them through seriously and carefully before you make them. Because some of those choices can only be made once, and once done, they cannot be undone.

Episode 18: Consent
May 04 2016 73 mins  
WARNING: This episode contains descriptions of consent violations both factual and fictitious. Today Adam and Craig delve into the ins and outs of Consent and kink and BDSM play. From the basics of pre play negotiation and continued consent to more advanced topics and unique issues with consent in kink and BDSM play. Basic consent ideas How to have a Pre scene discussion What’s the difference between hard limits and soft limits Be ready to clearly set ideas, don’t be vague Talk about the reasons behind your limits, don’t just give a laundry list. Absence of no isn’t the same as yes. The ‘enthusiastic yes’ concept Explain the concept of Continued consent Ongoing discussions in a scene. Both the tops and bottoms responsibility The traffic light system Advanced consent ideas Dangers of shifting limits in subspace Dangers of going nonverbal Playing without a safeword Implicit expectations of play spaces, darkrooms/orgy rooms ect, knowing the space. Clear ways to give nonverbal consent Clear ways to show nonverbal refusal of Consent How to protect yourself The difficulty with grey areas of consent Violation without a deliberate violator Our thoughts on how to handle  these events as a sub Our thoughts on how to handle events if you’re the top in question The concept of rashomon in conflict For further exploration of these issues and concepts, I highly recommend these episodes of Graydancer’s Ropecast If you would like to comment on anything talked about here today, or want to hear us talk about particular fetishes, or even wish to come on the show to talk about it yourself, you can reach us by Email, Facebook or Twitter at: [email protected] This is brought to you by

5 • 1 Ratings

Solarbear Aug 24 2020
Really interesting show, and covers some unusual topics.