Dating Kinky

Unsolicited advice is something I've been personally noodling for a bit, especially in regards to personal boundaries and ethics.

Welcome back to me! I guess I kind of just disappeared. And I didn't mean to. I meant to say something, do something, let people know... But I didn't. And I apologize for that.

To "do relationships" well, there are two factors that must be considered: 1. The individuals involved. 2. The relationships.

Or, do you punish the lack of perfection? I'll admit, I do both. It's hard, sometimes, to recognize that things are getting better when they are frustrating AF, and maybe even something you take personally.

I've covered priorities, openness and respect in communication. Today, I'm tackling compassion.

Not sure where this came from, except from the heart today. I wish all of this for all of you.

I've always thought Meatloaf had it backwards. He sang, "I want you. I need you, but there ain't no way I'm ever going to love you..."

When you have power exchange relationship with romance, you actually have two relationships: Power exchange dynamic + Romantic

One thing I've noticed in kink—versus the swinging world or nearly any other passion/hobby communities I've been in—kinksters as a whole do not believe the value of kink.

And you know what else? It's encouraged by many.