Dating Becomes Her

“This episode is going to go out after Valentine’s Day, so I don’t know, do we need a moment’s silence?” Friends Nat, Lucy, Be and Laura start with a Valentine’s/Galentine’s Day sidebar before trying to arm you with some questions they hope will help you on your first dates – and actually enjoy them. Go get ‘em, DBH family!Have you got a question, comment or story

“I do remember wrestling with this – ‘what if this person isn’t right for me?’ – and I’ve spent a significant amount of time asking God and asking others for wisdom.” Friends Nat, Lucy, Be and Laura firstly apologise for their French introduction attempts… and, then, try to unpack some myths about faith and finding your other half. Myth #5 is a real treat to top t

“This isn’t about finding someone to complete you, it’s about finding joy in another area of your life.” Friends Nat, Lucy, Be and Laura discuss that normal feeling of when you just want to delete the apps and pretend it never happened in the first place. You’re in control of our online dating journey so don’t ever feel pressured to be on there and know that it’s not

Would you make your potential love interest take a personality test? How do you have the conversation about being exclusive? Are paid or free accounts better? Friends Nat, Lucy, Be and Laura decide to change things up and just answer questions from the DBH listening family this time around.Have you got a question, comment or story to share with your DBH family? Get in touch with us

“When you’re jumping into online dating for the first time – when someone disappears or removes themselves from your messages – it can feel really personal.” Friends Nat, Lucy, Be and Laura get straight into the sting of being ghosted and gaslighted, and also what you shouldn’t take to heart when looking to find a real connection through the world of dating apps. Plus,

“At my age, it’s very likely the person I’m going to enter into a relationship with is going to be one of those two things, so if I’ve got a problem with that then I am really limiting the field of the guys I meet.” Friends Nat, Lucy, Be and Laura talk about not letting past hurts affect your future opportunities and reassessing ‘your list’ of superficial qualities (L

“Maybe 10 minutes into the date, I realised ‘Oh no! She’s got the wrong guy’s information and she’s going to give it to the police!'” Friends Nat, Lucy, Be and Laura have some awkward first date stories – and encourage you to share yours, too. Also, research reveals the top six fears when it comes to online dating and number one surprised these podcasters. @datingbeco

“I feel as though we have no choice and I don’t like it when my choice has been taken away.” Friends Nat, Lucy, Be and Laura share if and how they’ve let the people in their worlds know they’re online dating (now, everyone knows – Hi Mum and Dad!). If you need someone to tell then get in touch as they want to be your digital cheerleaders!@datingbecomesher on Instagram:

“There’s someone just around the corner for you.” Is there? Possibly if you put yourself out there and give online dating a go. Of course, it’s not the only way to find love. Play along with friends Nat, Lucy, Be and Laura, as they explore the worst lines said to Christian singles and unpack the stigma of Christians dating online. There’s no shame in actively and digitall

Welcome to Dating Becomes Her – the podcast for Christians who are tired of the stigma around online dating and want to find a way to find ‘the one’ without it getting weird. “Sharing the journey is one of the most fun parts of this process… and some of this process isn’t that fun.” Thirty-something friends Nat, Lucy, Be and Laura kick it all off with dating during co