13. When is it time to consider couples therapy? (ft. Kaycee Polite + Shula Melamed)


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Aug 03 2022 61 mins  

Couples Counseling, Navigating Conflict, and Sex Therapy

Welcome back to Asking for Myself, where I ask all the questions you're too afraid to. Today I am joined by sex therapist Kaycee Polite and relationship coach Shula Melamed to talk all things couples counseling. What do I ask this week?

  • What is the difference between therapy and coaching?
  • What is sex therapy and who is it for?
  • Is it ever too early or too late to seek couples counseling?
  • What can couples expect from therapy or coaching? What does a typical session look like and how long is the therapeutic relationship meant to last?
  • What can you do if one partner doesn't want to be in therapy and the other does?
  • If you are in couples counseling, should you also seek individual therapy or coaching? What is the difference in terms of format and expectations?
  • Where does defensiveness come from and what can you do when you notice it showing up, both within yourself and within your partner?
  • Are we responsible for our partner’s emotions?
  • When is it time to call it quits vs continue working on the relationship?
  • What can couples do when there are dips in desire and mismatched libidos
  • How do you build sexual intimacy with your partner and get creative in your sex life over time?
  • What if your partner is resistant to trying new things or intimidated?

So yes, a lot of questions! 😅 Let’s get into it!

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