- Rabbi Bernath’s background growing up and becoming a Rabbi
- Meeting the Lubavitcher Rebbe, Rabbi Menachem Mendel Schneerson, that inspires him till today
- How he assumed the title “Love Rabbi”
- Secrets of Matchmaking
- The hardest job in the world — dating
- Who am I and what do I bring to the relationship
- Practical element of being together and of where you’re headed
- Specific is Terrific
- Fixed or Flexed - Fixed on and Flexible with
- For everything non-negotiable, there must be many negotiable
- 3 I can live with, 3 things I cannot live without
- Cast a specific not, not a wide net
- Specific vs narrow-minded
- Feeling that something is missing in your life
- 3 Parts of Matchmaking: Introducing, Coaching, Closing
- 3 types of people: I people, You people, We people
- Importance of a Mashpia (mentor)
- Be you and understand you and wherever you are in that moment you will find someone
- Gemara about searching for your wife like searching for a lost object: it’s the man’s job to search for the wife
- How much work internally and how much externally
- The critical person is the mashpia
- Hashem will give the right words for the Mashpia to say
- Faith and Trust
- What to look for in a mashpia (mentor)
- Kabbalah and Chassidus meditation class he gives
- You can only have one thought at a time
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