#FRIEDguides: What to Do If You Are a Giver Who Sucks At Taking


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Mar 08 2025 24 mins   6

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Burnout happens when you give endlessly without allowing yourself to receive.


Cait Donovan and Sarah Vosen are back for #FRIEDguides to break down why high achievers and caregivers struggle to accept support, energy, and appreciation. If you dismiss compliments, downplay your needs, or feel guilty for resting, you’re not alone. The problem is that without refueling, burnout becomes inevitable.


The co-hosts introduce the idea of “receivership” and explain how learning to accept, rather than just give, creates balance. Through stories, metaphors, and practical exercises, they offer ways to expand your capacity to receive without guilt. If you want to keep showing up for others, you need to let yourself be fueled too!


Episode Breakdown:

00:00 Introduction

00:57 The Problem with Being a Good Giver

01:52 The Importance of Receiving and Taking

02:25 Fueling Yourself Beyond Sleep

03:48 Secret Indulgence and Shame

05:05 Reframing Selfishness as “Self-Full”

07:21 Teaching the Body to Receive

10:03 The Flow of Energy and Physical Manifestations

12:49 Description of the Meditation

15:03 The Importance of Flow in Energy and Life

18:58 Susceptibility to Burnout Post-Recovery

19:45 Identifying and Expanding Your Capacity

21:04 Receiving to Sustain Generosity

22:39 Increasing Capacity to Receive with Gratitude

24:17 Closing


Links

Connect with Cait:

Initial Call with Cait: bit.ly/callcait

Initial Call with Sarah: bit.ly/callsarahv

Meditation: https://open.spotify.com/episode/0WGHqwQAVbZEY1qLC9XyZL?si=f5da7095baa444f2


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