Sep 30 2024 40 mins 1
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In this powerful episode, Julie Sedenko speaks with Rose, a member of the Conquer support group, about her 20-year marriage filled with manipulation and abuse. Rose candidly shares the early warning signs she ignored, her experiences of escalating hostility and covert manipulation, and the profound trauma she endured during pregnancy and beyond.
She recounts the turning points, including realizing the extent of the abuse, the challenges of seeking help, and her difficult journey towards divorce and custody battles. Through support from the Conquer group and personal resilience, Rose found strength and hope, ultimately transforming her life. This heartfelt conversation underscores the importance of recognizing abuse, the impact of community support, and the empowering journey of personal growth.
Early Signs of Abuse
- Rose discusses the red flags and warning signs that emerged before marriage.
Experiencing Hostility
- Description of the increased hostility and aggression from her husband during pregnancy.
Trauma During Pregnancy
- The impact of severe emotional and verbal abuse during Rose's pregnancy.
The Realization of Abuse
- Rose's journey to understanding that she was experiencing abuse, including insights from her mother.
Manipulation Tactics
- Detailed examples of how Rose's husband employed manipulation and control, such as blocking exits and monitoring her whereabouts.
Path to Divorce
- The crucial moment when Rose calls the police and begins her battle for divorce.
Custody Battles
- Ongoing struggles with custody and how Rose hopes for a future free from her husband's control.
