Feb 03 2025 80 mins
In episode 84 of The Road to Wisdom Podcast Chloe & Keshia speak to Author Public Speaker & researcher Dr Paige Williams.
We invited Paige on after coming across her book "Becoming Anti-Fragile".
Anti-fragility is about embracing challenges as opportunities to grow stronger. Dr. Paige Williams explains how small, everyday struggles can build our resilience over time. These "paper cuts" might feel overwhelming in the moment, but they prepare us to handle larger disruptions with greater ease.
Self-compassion is a vital part of parenting. Many parents feel the weight of societal pressures and expectations, leading to feelings of inadequacy or anxiety. Dr. Williams emphasizes the importance of being kind to ourselves and recognizing that parenting is a journey of learning and growth. By focusing on our choices and reconnecting with what truly matters, we can navigate this journey with greater confidence and intentionality.
Parenting is not meant to be done alone. Collective support plays a crucial role in building resilience for both parents and children. Dr. Williams encourages creating a strong community where parents can share their challenges and support one another. Practical tools like the circles of control can also help parents focus on what they can influence, reducing overwhelm and fostering a sense of control.
Flexibility is essential when navigating the gap between expectations and reality. Holding expectations loosely allows parents to adapt to the unpredictability of family life without unnecessary stress. At the same time, drawing on intergenerational wisdom can provide valuable guidance, blending the lessons of the past with the demands of modern parenting.
Dr. Williams highlights the importance of breaking harmful societal norms, such as the "good girl syndrome," which affects both boys and girls. By challenging these stereotypes and modeling healthy behaviors, parents can lead their children toward a more resilient and empowered future. Parenting is a form of leadership, requiring boundaries, intentionality, and a commitment to raising emotionally healthy individuals.
In essence, this conversation reminds us that while parenting can feel overwhelming at times, it also offers countless opportunities for personal growth, connection, and transformation. By embracing these principles, parents can not only navigate the challenges of today but also shape a stronger, more resilient next generation.
Dr Paige can be found at drpaige.au
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