Sep 15 2023 50 mins 2
On this week’s episode of The Slut Show journalist, activist & neurodivergent feminist: Kaia Manoeli Stafford (she / her) takes over the show, interviewing host Ellen Moore (she / her) about her experiences being a (late diagnosed) woman with ADHD. The two discuss how ADHD impacts their sex lives, what struggles they encounter and how they overcome them. From submissiveness to dirty talk, from getting tied up to smoking weed and from distractions to (faking) orgasms – ALL tea will be spilled. This and WAY Mo(o)re, live now!
Please note: this episode may be considered triggering to those struggling with ADHD and the interpersonal impact thereof. Below you find a layout of that which is discussed on this week’s episode of The Slut Show, trigger-warnings included.
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On this episode of The Slut Show
00:00-00:16 Intro (tune)
00:16-01:33 Introducing this week’s guest: Kaia Manoeli Stafford
01:33-01:49 Leader (tune)
01:49-04:31 What’s the most empowering thing you did lately?
TRIGGER-WARNING ! From 02:20-02:24 Kaia briefly describes a public r@p3 case
TRIGGER-WARNING ! At 02:26 Ellen mentions the word r@p3
04:31-13:58 Slutty Science: ADHD & Sex
13:58-15:11 Sex & ADHD cognitive behavioral therapy
15:11-17:28 How ADHD & sex relate for Kaia
17:28-19:16 Kaia on coping with ADHD during sex
19:16-20:05 Daytime- vs. nighttime-sex
20:05-21:39 3PM: sexy o’clock
21:39-23:20 Weed, sex & ADHD
23:20-24:31 Addiction & ADHD
24:31-25:14 Exclusive: Watch The Slut Show!
25:14-28:21 Ellen’s ADHD diagnosis Story
28:21-29:22 How it felt to hear “you have ADHD”
29:22-30:00 How ADHD & sex relate for Ellen
30:00-30:38 Orgasmic dysfunction & ADHD
30:38-32:10 Faking orgasms
32:10-32:35 How Ellen was raised in regards to sexuality & feminism
32:35-33:45 Why it took Ellen 23 years to get diagnosed
33:45-34:31 Ellen on coping with ADHD during sex
34:31-35:32 Dirty talk
35:32-36:02 Moaning & growling
36:02-37:20 Ellen confessing her favorite nasty word
37:20-38:22 Gender & ADHD
38:22-39:22 Inattentive ADHD & misdiagnosis amongst women
39:22-40:37 Sexism in medicines
40:37-43:07 Mail: Do you get impatient & out of the mood too?
43:07-44:26 Dealing with guilt
44:26-45:01 Swallow or spit?
45:01-46:44 Stopping or finishing?
46:44-47:54 How do you see the future?
47:54-48:33 What Ellen would tell her younger self
48:33-49:32 A message to all women with ADHD
49:32-49:57 Next week on The Slut Show
49:57-50:56 Where else to find + support us
