Sep 01 2024 52 mins
Infidelity is a situation that rocks your world and changes the way you see your partner, your life, and yourself. In other words, it changed your perspective. While you might feel broken and afraid right now, the truth is your perspective will change again. One day, you will see things differently, one day, you will understand, and one day, you will be happy. In this episode, we dive deep into the power of changing perspectives and enlisting expert advice to help you do so to heal and thrive after infidelity.
Top Takeaways:
- 🔍 A Shift in Vision and Mindset
Lora’s personal story of how feeling unhappy and trapped by vision problems shifted when a friend recommended a visit to a specialist who could address her specific issues. Embracing the shift from shame to confidence, a powerful lesson for overcoming life's difficulties that took place when she discovered that her vision wasn't as bad as she thought.
- 👓 Tools and Options for a Clearer Vision
Why trying a variety of tools and options is the best way to solve your problems and release your pain. In the same way, Lora’s eye specialist offered various options like monovision and bifocal contacts for her to try, so too must you be willing to try different solutions to find what works for you.
- 💔 You're Not Alone: Healing from Betrayal
Betrayal can feel isolating, but remember, you are not alone! Connecting with others helps you feel connected and supported. Join a community, share your experience, or read about others who have faced infidelity, too. This sheds light on the complexities and commonalities of these journeys. Our Facebook community, Affair Recovery for Women: https://www.facebook.com/groups/affairrecoveryforwomen ) is a safe space for support and understanding.
- 🌟 Expert Guidance for Trauma Recovery
Stop settling for less and get the help you need and deserve! Seeking help from trauma-aware specialists is essential. Just as finding the right eye doctor made a world of difference for me, finding a specialist experienced in betrayal and infidelity can profoundly impact your healing journey. These experts understand how trauma affects the brain, nervous system, and relationships, providing the precise care you need.
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About Lora
Lora Cheadle is an attorney, TEDx speaker, and betrayal recovery coach who helps women turn their devastation into an invitation to rise up and reign. Whether reclaiming what they let go of along the way, rebuilding their identity, or stepping into a stronger sense of self-trust and self-worth, Lora’s expert guidance empowers women to uncover the truth™ of what they are capable of and deserve. After being shattered by her husband’s fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand the skills and strategies necessary to stop feeling broken and start living fully and freely.
She is licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, is a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, advanced integrated energy practitioner, and is certified to teach yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal train. She is the author of the International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller, FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self and host of the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. She lives in Colorado and loves travel, adventure, and a good book.
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