Addicts Have a Savior and It Isn’t You | An Interview with Emily and Danny Deaton


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Feb 07 2025 54 mins   69

Danny and Emily Deaton are the founders of Living Proof Recovery Services, a company dedicated to supporting individuals and families who are navigating addiction with a loved one. They carry degrees from rival schools, the University of Utah and Brigham Young University but found common ground in their love for Jesus and the Utah Jazz. They have built a life they love together in Alpine, Utah. They love being parents to three awesome children and have served as Stake Young Single Adult leaders and Emily as a Relief Society president. Danny and Emily host the “Your Living Proof Podcast” and love speaking and sharing their message of faith in action, hope, and their love for Jesus Christ.


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Emily and Danny talk about the growing issues of addiction, highlighting the importance of being prepared to address these challenges and the need for resources and education. Danny recounts his experience with opioid addiction, detailing how it progressed from a seemingly manageable issue to a life-altering crisis that culminated in a near-fatal incident. He reflects on the pivotal moment when his father intervened, demonstrating the power of love and family support in the recovery process.


Emily adds her perspective, emphasizing the time required for true healing and the transformative power of the Atonement in their lives. The couple discusses the importance of understanding addiction as a family disease, where the entire family unit must engage in the recovery process. They stress that addiction often manifests as a secretive struggle, and families typically wait too long—averaging seven years—before seeking professional help. The Deatons advocate for the role of interventionists and the necessity of establishing boundaries to support loved ones in their recovery journey. They also highlight the importance of church leaders in recognizing the signs of addiction and guiding families toward appropriate resources, such as support groups and professional help.


Danny and Emily challenge the misconception that individuals must want to recover on their own before intervention can occur, arguing instead that families must take proactive steps to facilitate recovery. They discuss the need for families to learn about addiction, set boundaries, and seek help themselves, creating a supportive environment for their loved ones. Church leaders and families can utilize available resources and to understand that addiction is a complex issue that requires a collective effort for healing and recovery.


02:00 – Danny and Emily Deaton’s Background

03:00 – Danny’s Journey Through Addiction

06:00 – The Low Point of Addiction

08:00 – The Role of Family in Recovery

09:00 – The Power of the Atonement

10:00 – Transitioning to Recovery Services

12:00 – Understanding the Role of an Interventionist

13:00 – The Impact of COVID on Recovery Services

14:00 – Developing a Comprehensive Recovery Program

16:00 – The Importance of Family Support

18:00 – Recognizing the Signs of Addiction

19:00 – The Illusion of Control in Addiction

20:00 – The Need for Professional Help

22:00 – The Role of Agency in Addiction

24:00 – The Importance of Boundaries

26:00 – The Challenge of Helping Loved Ones

28:00 – The Statistics of Addiction

29:00 – The Underlying Issues of Addiction

30:00 – The Role of Church Leaders in Recovery

32:00 – The Disconnect Between Spiritual Guidance and Addiction

34:00 – The Need for Professional Intervention

36:00 – The Importance of Family Healing

37:00 – God’s Example of Boundaries

39:00 – The Role of Church Leaders in Addiction Recovery

41:00 – The Importance of Family Support Systems

42:00 – Resources Available for Families in Need


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