Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families

The Silent Message Your Face Sends

When your child walks into the room, what do they see? Drawing from Toni Morrison's profound insight and an Olympic coach's wisdom about competition, discover how subtle expressions shape our children's sense of worth and why measuring against our own progress matters more than beating others. Plus, learn why even well-intentioned critical looks might be sending the wrong message.

Quote of the Episode: "When they walked in the room, I was glad to see them. It's just as small as that... That is how you learn what your value is."

Key Insights:

• Children read facial expressions more than words.

• Good intentions can still show as criticism.

• Competition should focus on personal improvement.

• Our reactions shape children's sense of worth.

• Joy should be visible, not just felt.

• Even caring criticism can appear negative.

• Personal bests matter more than winning.

• Face-to-face interactions shape self-worth.

Resources Mentioned:

• Frank Dick's coaching philosophy

• Toni Morrison on the Oprah Show

• Happy Families

Action Steps for Parents:

1. Notice your facial expression when children enter the room..

2. Focus on personal growth rather than competitive outcomes.

3. Show joy intentionally in daily interactions

4. Make delight visible when greeting children.

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