S2 04 Exploring Somatic Healing, Sexuality & Authenticity with Nikki Wetherell


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Feb 21 2025 34 mins  

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In this powerful episode, I sit down with Nikki Wetherell, a somatic sexologist and trainee counsellor, for an intimate conversation about trauma, healing, sexuality, and the journey to authenticity. Nikki shares her deeply personal story of navigating sexual trauma, birth trauma, coming out later in life, and exploring polyamory while maintaining a loving marriage and family life.

Episode Summary:

Nikki opens up about her path to becoming a somatic sexologist and her belief in the power of combining traditional therapy with bodywork. We discuss the importance of safe touch, the wisdom of the body, and how trauma can resurface during significant life events like childbirth. Nikki bravely shares her experience of remembering and processing sexual trauma, and how feeling truly safe for the first time allowed her to explore and acknowledge her queer identity in her late 30s.

Key Takeaways:

  • The vital importance of trusting your body's wisdom and finding practitioners who will listen to and honour that wisdom
  • How feeling safe can unlock deeper understanding of ourselves and our authentic identities
  • The complex journey of coming out later in life while maintaining existing relationships and family dynamics
  • The challenges of navigating polyamory when partners are monogamous
  • The significance of having proper support and poly-informed therapists when exploring non-traditional relationship structures

Nikki reminds us that healing isn't linear - it's more like an infinity sign where we revisit similar themes but with greater awareness each time. Her story beautifully illustrates how authenticity, though challenging, is worth pursuing despite societal conditioning and expectations.

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