Ep.86 Secrets to Extraordinary Love with Celebrity Relationship Coach, Annie Lalla


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Jan 21 2025 79 mins  

✨ This is episode is A MUST LISTEN if you are wanting to call in the love of your life or take your relationship to higher heights. Annie is a world-class relationship coach and describes love in a way that resonates and inspires you to raise your standards for yourself and your partnership. I get very candid about my experience with jealousy, self-esteem, and ability to emotionally regulate while Annie shares her open-hearted, potent truths for helping relationships fight better, love bigger and thrive. 

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  • Check out her website and take the True Love Test  
  • Check out her Relationship Coaching Program, The Heart Coach 

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🔑 Key Takeaways:

  • Navigating upper limits of joy requires emotional regulation. 
  • Self-esteem is crucial for attracting the right partner. 
  • Jealousy can be a protective emotion, not a weakness. 
  • True love requires both partners to grow together. 
  • Effective communication is key to resolving conflicts. 
  • Recognizing the balance of attraction and repulsion is essential. 
  • Building self-esteem involves recognizing one's worth and deservingness. 
  • Selfing and othering are important dynamics in relationships. 

🕒 Timestamps:

🕒 Timestamps:

00:00 Introduction to True Love and Self-Esteem 

03:01 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Relationships 

05:50 Understanding Self-Esteem in Relationships 

09:06 The Importance of Coping and Deservingness 

11:49 Selfing and Othering in Relationships 

15:13 Navigating Love: Attraction and Repulsion 

18:04 The Dynamics of True Love 

20:57 The Role of Vision in Relationships 

23:46 Settling vs. True Love 

27:06 The Power of Reflection in Relationships 

39:46 Understanding Repulsion in Relationships 

42:13 The Art of Conflict and Collaboration 

43:36 Bridging the Gap Between Values and Behavior 

46:03 Inspiring Growth Through Values 

49:51 Navigating Jealousy and Relationship Dynamics 

01:07:59 Coping with Upper Limits of Joy


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