The Aspiring Psychologist Podcast

Show Notes for The Aspiring Psychologist Podcast Episode 152: What is coercive and controlling behaviour?

In this episode of the Aspiring Psychologist Podcast, Dr. Marianne Trent is joined by Chrissy Roberts to explore the topic of coercive control. They delve into the subtle yet powerful tactics that define coercive control, how it affects the victim's sense of self-worth, and the long-lasting impact it can have on relationships. Chrissy shares her personal experience with coercive control and sheds light on how these patterns of abuse can manifest in any type of relationship—not just romantic ones.

This episode is essential listening for those in the mental health field, as well as anyone who wants to better understand the signs of coercive control and how to support those who may be affected.

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Key Takeaways:

• Understanding coercive control as a subtle but dangerous form of abuse.

• Recognising the signs and patterns in different types of relationships.

• The emotional impact of coercive control on victims and why it is difficult to leave.

• How perpetrators use manipulation, isolation, and gaslighting to maintain control.

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Highlights:

• 00:00 - Introduction and Overview of Coercive Control
• 01:26 - Guest Introduction: Chrissy Roberts
• 02:47 - The Importance of Raising Awareness About Coercive Control
• 04:03 - Defining Coercive Control and Its Legal Background
• 05:34 - How Coercive Control Affects the Victim's Sense of Self-Worth
• 06:57 - Recognising Coercive Control Beyond Romantic Relationships
• 08:32 - How Vulnerabilities Make Some People More Susceptible to Coercive Control
• 09:18 - The Pattern of Coercive Control in Parent-Child Relationships
• 10:03 - Medical and Financial Control as Forms of Coercive Behaviour
• 12:30 - The Complex Emotional Nature of Coercive Relationships
• 14:01 - The Role of Love Bombing and Manipulation in Coercive Control
• 17:05 - Emotional Red Flags and How Victims Are Made to Feel Responsible
• 19:27 - Gaslighting: Making Victims Doubt Their Own Reality
• 21:47 - Rebuilding Trust in Yourself After Being Gaslighted
• 24:38 - The Challenges of Legally Defining and Prosecuting Coercive Control
• 26:43 - The Importance of Education on Healthy Relationships
• 28:28 - Closing Thoughts and Where to Find Support

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