Oct 07 2024 44 mins 5
This episode of the Embracing Intensity podcast, features a detailed conversation with Heather Borman Morris about understanding narcissistic relationships and how they uniquely affect gifted and neurodivergent individuals. Heather, a clinical social worker, shares her personal experience with narcissistic abuse, providing insights on identifying covert narcissism versus mere intense interest, particularly in neurodivergent or twice-exceptional individuals. The discussion delves into strategies for recognizing and managing toxic relationships, differentiating between narcissism and authentic behaviors, and emphasizes the need for understanding personal boundaries and fostering healthy relationships post-abuse. The episode also introduces Heather's work, including her book 'A Thousand Paper Cuts' and the podcast 'Starting Stronger'.
About Heather:
Heather Boorman-Morris is a renowned therapist, speaker, and author dedicated to helping individuals heal and thrive after experiencing toxic relationships. With over two decades of experience in the field, Heather specializes in trauma recovery, relationship dynamics, and neurodivergent mental health. She is the founder of Starting Stronger and the author of the acclaimed book Thousand Paper Cuts: Finding Healing in the Aftermath of a Narcissist. Heather’s compassionate approach and deep understanding of complex emotional landscapes make her a sought-after expert in the journey towards healthy, fulfilling relationships.
In this episode:
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Heather joins the podcast to discuss navigating healthy relationships, focusing on narcissistic abuse.
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Heather shares her experience of being in an abusive relationship and later discovering covert narcissism.
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Discussion on the targeting of neurodivergent individuals by narcissists, highlighting their traits like empathy and ambition.
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Differences between overt and covert narcissists are outlined, including their stages of relationship: idealization, devaluation, and discard.
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Strategies like mirroring used by manipulators in relationships are explained.
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Emphasis on trusting one's body and intuition as indicators of being in a toxic relationship.
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Conversation on distinguishing between love bombing and genuine neurodivergent intensity.
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Importance of taking time to build relationships and recognizing genuine intentions.
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Discussion about the impact of past trauma and hyper-vigilance when forming new relationships.
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