Understanding Emotional Avoidance and Embracing Vulnerability


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Jan 03 2025 41 mins   1

Mastering Emotional Avoidance with Dr. Michelle Maidenberg


In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant welcomes Dr. Michelle Maidenberg, a New York-based therapist and author of 'Ace Your Life: Unleash Your Best Self and Live the Life You Want.' They delve into a master class on emotional avoidance, discussing why people engage in it and how it can worsen emotional experiences.


Dr. Maidenberg introduces her ACE methodology — Acceptance, Compassion, and Empowerment — to help individuals connect with their core values and lead fulfilling lives. She also offers insights into men's unique struggles with emotional expression and practical strategies for managing intense emotions. Additionally, they explore EMDR therapy and the importance of setting sustainable goals.


00:00 Welcome to Real Men Feel 2025


00:20 Introducing Dr. Michelle Maidenberg


01:14 Understanding Emotional Avoidance


04:21 The Impact of Emotional Avoidance


07:15 Connecting with Core Values


16:31 Men and Emotional Avoidance


22:25 Introduction to Managing Negative Emotions


22:44 Understanding Stuckness and Core Values


23:54 The ACE Method: Acceptance, Compassion, and Empowerment


25:22 Sustainability of Change and New Year's Resolutions


29:18 Exploring EMDR and Healing Trauma


34:12 Personal Journey and Professional Insights


40:46 Final Thoughts and Resources




Connect with Michelle


Dr. Michelle Maidenberg -- http://www.michellemaidenberg.com/


LinkedIn -- https://www.linkedin.com/in/michellemaidenberg/


Instagram -- https://www.instagram.com/drmichellemaidenberg


Facebook -- https://www.facebook.com/michellemaidenberg




Resources


ACE Your Life: Unleash Your Best Self and Live the Life You Want, Michelle Maidenberg


-- https://amzn.to/3DIvffG


Michelle's YouTube channel -- https://www.youtube.com/c/DrMichelleMaidenberg


Psychology Today Blog -- https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/contributors/michelle-p-maidenberg-phd-mph-lcsw-r-cgp




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