Positive Parenting Pep Talks

Today's Positive Parenting Pep Talks Podcast is a recording of and interview I gave many years ago on the Happier Kids Now Online Expo. I wanted to share it with you because I was able to provide so many ideas for helping you to help your kids behave better.

I mentioned the Dial-A-Discipline Wheel that you can purchase here.

I talked about Power Struggles and have an online video class you can purchase for $12.99 here.

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In this episode:

• About my back ground and how I got started


• Why do kids Misbehave?


• Kids have need they are trying to get met through their behavior.


• Spend time with kids when they’re not misbehaving.


• How do you identify misbehavior?


• A systematic approach to misbehavior in your children.


• A misbehaving child is a discouraged child.

There are 4 mistaken goals of misbehavior:

• Attention


• Power


• Revenge


• Inadequacy

Dial-A-Discipline to help identify and correct misbehavior.

• Why do kids love to power struggle with us?


• What age do they learn to power struggle with us?


• What’re the 2 best ways to teach them not to power struggle with us?


• How do you get out of a power struggle?


• Why do kids always have to get the last word in?


• What is the high level communication tool you can role model for your children?


• What happens if your child is being hurtful or hateful?


• You need to know which discipline to use on which behavior.


• What is the child who is helpless, tired or says, “I Can’t”?


• What is the first thing to do when your child is being hurtful or hateful?


• How can you understand the behavior without taking it personally?


• Mirror back to your child the impact they are having on their world.


• An example of my daughter bing in the goal of revenge and how I handled it.


• Valuable insights into the goal of revenge.


• Looking at how adults model this behavior.


• Learn to redirect a child that is whining and saying, “I can’t!”

During the last 20 minutes, Deb offers parents specific help during Q&A.

If you want more in depth information about powers struggles and the other 3 goals go to Season 1 of the Positive Parenting Pep Talks Podcast.