Rules of Engagement - Are we ageist when it comes to the thought of "chatting up"?


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Mar 05 2024 29 mins  

On a recent trip to a hardware store, Dawn’s husband was propositioned by an older lady, which got Dawn and Tracy thinking about what are the rules of engagement for older people when it comes to matters of the heart. Are older people becoming more confident or is confidence something that comes with age? Why are more men dating older women and can relationships even work when there is a large age gap?

KEY TAKEAWAYS

  • Tracy recounts her recent experience of being approached by a younger man and how this made her feel.
  • The ladies discuss what qualities they think men are attracted to in older women that younger women don’t have.
  • Dawn talks about people she knew that had relationships with large age gaps and the advantages and disadvantages that came with them.
  • Tracy talks about how she has noticed a trend in younger people in business to carry the confidence they have with dating into their professional lives and how this isn’t always a good thing.

BEST MOMENTS

“I think I’m a catch and if someone wants to chat me up I know it’s because of my personality.”

“Older women are more confident in the bedroom. They know what they like and how they like to do it.”

“Confidence is as attractive as it gets.”

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ABOUT THE HOSTS

Dawn and Tracy are real women who are fed up of all the “noise” out there in the real world. Life isn’t simply rainbows and unicorns, it's broken relationships, hard work, hot sweats and never ending laundry baskets. But life as a real woman is also about being honest, having good gossip and speaking our truths. Whether it’s peeling yourself into your spandex for a night out, or running a business meeting barefoot because the heel has fallen off your stilettos, there is always something to laugh about in life.

Dawn is mid 50’s mid menopause straight talking business maverick. Four kids, three grandchildren, two businesses, one husband and a self proclaimed “hottie”.

Tracy is a mid 50’s awesome mum, business and property mentor. Proud of her raw, honest nature, “bonkers” sense of humour and good old-fashioned northern humility.

PODCAST DESCRIPTION

The business of being a real woman juggling life, love and work for many of us is pure sweat, grit & hustle. This podcast is for those of you who are tired of the “noise” and just want real down-to-earth gossip with no filters or fluff. Dawn and Tracy bring heartfelt humour, raw honesty, spandex, stilettos, and intelligent conversion on being a real woman in today's world.