Mar 17 2025 14 mins
Are you tired of taking a backseat while watching others succeed? Do you feel invisible in meetings or overlooked for opportunities despite your capabilities? This deeply personal episode tackles the powerful truth that perception creates reality – especially when it comes to how others view your potential and value.
Drawing from my own struggles through my twenties and thirties searching for relevance and direction, I share the exact eight-step framework that transformed how others perceived me. This isn't just theory – it's a practical roadmap forged through trial and error that finally helped me find my platform for success in leadership and management.
We explore honest self-assessment, the courage required to seek genuine feedback, and the immediate small changes that create momentum. You'll discover how volunteering for challenging projects nobody else wants instantly increases your visibility, and why cross-functional opportunities put you in front of fresh eyes who haven't formed negative perceptions of you yet. Most importantly, you'll learn how to effectively promote yourself without appearing arrogant, build a network of advocates who champion your success, and develop a personal brand that authentically showcases your strengths.
For Gen Z and Millennials who've faced unprecedented challenges – from pandemic disruptions to technological revolutions and social media pressures – managing perception becomes even more critical in shaping your future opportunities. Don't let negative perceptions become your limiting reality. Listen now to discover how small shifts in how others see you can dramatically change your trajectory toward the relevance and success you deserve.