Nov 26 2024 35 mins
It’s natural to feel uneasy when your kid strays from the socially accepted path of college, career, and other traditional milestones. But as today’s guest Joanna points out, the reality is that the so-called "normal" path is often the exception, not the rule. The world has changed dramatically, and success now comes in many forms. Degrees, certifications, and fulfilling careers don’t always look like they used to, and that’s okay.
As parents, we’re fearful of our teen’s choices because it looks different from our own experiences and we don’t know whether it’s going to work out for them. The unknown makes it scary for us to witness. But their unique journey can lead to a future that’s both meaningful and fulfilling for your teen.
“Anybody that has treatment experience just is so much more attuned, so much more insightful, so much more aware. … The reality is, they’re lightyears ahead of their peers” - Joanna Lilley
Today’s guest is Joanna Lilley, a therapeutic consultant who specializes in guiding young adults through life transitions. Together, we dive into redefining success, breaking free from outdated societal norms, and supporting young adults who are charting their own unique paths, especially when those paths look different from the ones we expected.
In this episode on what success looks like for our young adult kids, we cover:
- Why the "normal" path is no longer the standard;
- How societal shifts are changing what success looks like for our young adult kids nowadays;
- What it means to believe in your young adult, even when their path looks unfamiliar;
- Joanna’s biggest advice for parents when your young adult is feeling miserable on the path they’re taking;
- The life experience teens gain in treatment;
- And much more.
Let’s poke holes in rigid thinking and redefine success, together.
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More about Joanna Lilley
Joanna Lilley, MA, NCC, is a Therapeutic Consultant working with young adults only. Since 2016, Lilley Consulting has been helping families and young adults find treatment and resource options during the most important time in adulthood. Joanna dedicates herself to working solely with emerging adults who unravel before going to college, when they land on campus, or right after college graduation. Young adulthood can be messy, but it doesn’t have to be if you find the right resources when needed.
You can connect with Lilley on her website or Facebook.
Have a listen to Lilley’s podcast ‘Success is Subjective’ where I was also a guest speaker.
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