Feb 09 2025 31 mins
➡️ "They're everywhere - the wolves in sheep's clothing."
Dr. Valerie Sussman spent 20 years married to a covert narcissist before breaking free and becoming an expert on narcissistic abuse. In this powerful episode, she reveals the hidden signs of narcissistic personality disorder and the destructive four-stage cycle that keeps victims trapped: love bombing, devaluing, discarding, and hoovering.
After leaving her pediatric practice and toxic marriage at age 50, Dr. Sussman transformed her pain into purpose. Now she's helping others spot the red flags she missed - because the most dangerous narcissists aren't the obvious ones. They're the covert operators hiding behind a mask of charm.
➡️ Learn how to:
✓ Spot the early warning signs of a covert narcissist
✓ Understand the addictive cycle of narcissistic abuse
✓ Break free from the "hopium" that keeps you trapped
✓ Protect yourself and your children from narcissistic manipulation
✓ Heal through creative expression and reclaim your identity
Whether you're questioning your own relationship or supporting someone who might be involved with a narcissist, this episode provides crucial insights that could save years of heartache.
➡️ Chapters:
00:00 - Introduction: The Hidden Danger of Covert Narcissists
04:09 - Dr. Sussman's 20-Year Journey with a Covert Narcissist
05:48 - Why We Don't See the Signs Early On
09:08 - Understanding True Narcissism vs Common Misconceptions
16:23 - The Four Stages of Narcissistic Abuse
21:12 - Protecting Young People from Toxic Relationships
25:25 - Healing Through Art: Finding Yourself Again
27:46 - The Gray Rock Method: Setting Boundaries
29:30 - Final Thoughts: The Wolves in Sheep's Clothing
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Unraveling Narcissistic Abuse and Reclaiming Your Joy
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