It’s hard to stay away from a partner that we love, especially when we are afraid that the relationship is ending. However, if we want to get back with that person, we’ve got to be very mindful of how we behave now. It is very possible that our actions can start to look threatening.
This episode addresses when it starts to look more like we care about our own feelings and we really don’t care about theirs. No one will want to get back with us if we show more interest in ourselves and less in them.