Nov 13 2024 60 mins 1
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Imagine caring for someone for over 20 years without anyone ever asking if you want to be their carer. It sounds unthinkable, right? In this episode, we delve into this powerful, often unasked question and explore what it truly means to support someone at the end of their life, without sacrificing your own.
Join me as I chat with Inge McGinn, a Senior Counsellor and Caseworker from Peninsula Home Hospice, who has over 25 years of experience working in palliative care. Inge’s unique journey to this field started with deeply personal experiences that taught her the importance of discussing death openly.
She’s passionate about helping people talk about what’s often left unspoken: death, dying, and the role of carers. In our conversation, we explore how she supports carers in navigating the intense emotional journey that comes with caring for someone at the end of life. Inge’s approach brings compassion to an often-overlooked aspect of palliative care, recognising carers' needs and creating space for their struggles and strengths.
In this episode, Inge and I also tackle the importance of asking carers, “Do you actually want this role?” It’s a powerful moment when carers realise they can have a say in their role. We unpack how understanding their own limits, boundaries, and desires can help carers fulfil their responsibilities with respect for both themselves and those they care for.
Whether you're a carer, know someone who is, or are interested in palliative care, Inge's wisdom and experiences offer a touching perspective on what it means to live—and die—with dignity and support.
Key Takeaways:
• The Question No One Asks Carers: How "Do you want to be a carer?" can transform lives.
• Caring Beyond Assumptions: Recognising the unique challenges and choices every carer faces.
• Self-Care for Carers: Inge’s insights on setting boundaries and maintaining your identity.
• Community and Compassion: How a strong support network can uplift both carers and the dying.
Remember: You may not be ready to die, but at least you can be prepared.
Take care,
Catherine
Chapters:
00:01 - Introduction to palliative care journey and experiences in family therapy
02:28 - Inga's inspiration to work in palliative care and early professional experiences
03:17 - Challenges faced in juvenile justice and supporting famili
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