Feb 24 2024 7 mins
In this episode, counselor and author John Sternfels discusses Marriage, Now What? Marriage, Now What? encapsulates the sentiment many couples experience after the initial excitement of marriage settles. It's a reflective phase where partners may ponder the direction of their relationship. This question invites couples to embrace the evolving nature of their union and actively shape its trajectory.
In this phase, couples can explore shared goals, set new aspirations, and deepen their connection through effective communication. It's an opportunity to assess individual and collective growth, adapting to life's changes. Date nights, open conversations, and continued emotional and physical intimacy play pivotal roles in sustaining a vibrant and fulfilling marriage.
Financial planning, shared responsibilities, and a commitment to mutual support contribute to the stability of the partnership. Celebrating milestones and expressing gratitude become habits that reinforce the positive aspects of the relationship. Couples may embark on new adventures, encouraging each other to pursue dreams and aspirations.
Navigating conflicts with resilience and finding constructive solutions become essential skills. This phase encourages couples to renew their commitment, fostering a sense of dedication and love. Ultimately, "Marriage, Now What?" is an invitation to actively shape and invest in the ongoing journey of shared growth, creating a resilient and enduring foundation for a lasting and meaningful marriage.
John Sternfels, LPC, NCC, CSAT, CMAT, CCPS, C-SASI
Owner/Clinical Director of NorthPoint Professional Counseling
Counselor and Author
Books Available:
A Partner's Guide To Truth & Healing
Behind The Smile: Healing From Abuse, Trauma, and Betrayal.
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