5: Permission to Be Human: Ditching the Fear of Messing Up as a Mom


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Nov 18 2024 30 mins  

Episode Summary: Hey there, supermoms! In this episode of Stress-Free Supermoms, we're diving into a topic close to my heart: the fear of making mistakes as a parent. I’m sharing my personal journey through this fear, especially with raising neurodivergent kids, and some hard-won insights on embracing imperfection. Let's explore practical strategies, mindset shifts, and compassionate reminders that it's okay to be human in this parenting journey.

Episode Highlights:

  • [00:01:00]Personal Story of Imperfection
    • I share my experiences with my kids’ unique educational journeys and how I’ve grappled with feelings of self-doubt.
  • [00:08:00]Why We Fear Mistakes
    • How societal expectations and comparison to others fuel our fears of falling short.
  • [00:12:00]Practical Strategies to Embrace Imperfection
    • Embrace a Growth Mindset: Redefine mistakes as opportunities to grow.
    • Set Realistic Expectations: Progress over perfection; set smaller, achievable goals.
    • Model Self-Compassion: Show yourself kindness as a way to teach resilience.
  • [00:21:00]Learning Through Mistakes
    • My son's school night exercise became a lesson in making mistakes, and how to keep going despite them.

Takeaways:

  1. Embrace your imperfections and remind yourself that mistakes don’t define you as a mom.
  2. Set goals that are realistic and celebrate progress.
  3. Practice self-compassion—you’re doing an amazing job just by caring and trying your best.

Call to Action: Reflect on a time you handled a mistake positively or practiced self-compassion in a moment of doubt. Share your story in the Stress-Free Supermoms Facebook Group so we can support each other in our shared journey.