Jan 15 2025 28 mins
In this episode of The Real Enneagram, we had the pleasure of welcoming our dear friend Valerie Wheat, an instructor at the College of Education at Jacksonville State University. Valerie shared her journey with the Enneagram, which began about ten years ago when a friend introduced her to the concept. Initially, she approached it superficially, but as her friendship with Dr. Joe Howell deepened, she began to explore the Enneagram more profoundly, ultimately identifying as an Enneagram Type 8.
We discussed the common misconceptions surrounding Type 8s, including the shame some feel about their assertive nature. Valerie reflected on her experiences and how her son Jonathan encouraged her to embrace her identity as an 8, highlighting the healthy aspects of this type. We also explored the holy ideas and virtues associated with Type 8, particularly focusing on holy truth and holy compassion, as well as the virtue of innocence.
Valerie shared a poignant personal story about her quest for truth during a crisis of belief in her 20s, which resonated deeply with her understanding of the holy idea of truth. She emphasized how this journey has shaped her life and her approach to challenges, including her husband's serious health issues over the past few years. Valerie's self-awareness and growth have allowed her to navigate these difficulties with grace and empathy, transforming her interactions with students and others around her.
Throughout the episode, we highlighted the importance of doing the inner work associated with the Enneagram, recognizing that while it can be challenging, it ultimately leads to personal growth and deeper connections with others. We are grateful for Valerie's vulnerability and insights, which serve as a testament to the transformative power of understanding oneself through the lens of the Enneagram. Thank you for joining us, and we hope you find inspiration in Valerie's journey!
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