Jan 15 2024 21 mins 1
Making difficult decisions can be stressful and even paralyzing. "Should I take the job or not? "Where should I live?" " How should I spend my money?" "What should I study in school?" "Who should I marry?" As you can see the list can seem to go on and on. The "right" answer seems to be hidden and rarely appears to give us that definitive statement that we are searching for.
Seeking God's Will can be challenging, but in this episode, Linda and Merrill discuss six things we can do to help us discern God's Will when we are confronted with decisions to be made.
Matthew 7:7-8
7 “Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. 8 For everyone who asks receives; the one who seeks finds; and to the one who knocks, the door will be opened.
1. Seek God through Prayer: Prayer is the foundation for any attempt to discern God's will. Humbly approach Him in prayer, acknowledging your limitations and seeking His wisdom. Ask for guidance, clarity, and peace in your decision (Proverbs 3:5-6).
2. Align your desires with Scripture: God's word reveals His character and desires for us. Immerse yourself in the Bible, seeking verses that speak to your situation. Align your desires with what God reveals about Himself and His plan for humanity (Psalm 119:105).
3. Seek wise counsel: Surround yourself with trusted believers who know you well and understand biblical principles. Seek their advice and prayerful support, considering their insights through the lens of Scripture (Proverbs 15:22).
4. Listen for the inner leading of the Holy Spirit: The Holy Spirit indwells believers and guides us in God's ways. Be attentive to nudges, convictions, and a sense of peace about one path over another. Remember, the Holy Spirit will never lead you to contradict Scripture. Romans 8:14 For those that are led by the spirit of God are the children of God.
5. Consider the fruits of each option: Evaluate the potential consequences of each choice. Ask yourself which path aligns with God's character of love, justice, and peace. Choose the path that leads towards spiritual growth and the well-being of yourself and others (Galatians 5:22-23).
6. Trust God for the outcome. Could you follow 1 through 5 and still make a mistake? YES. That’s because We’re not God we’re HUMAN, but God already knew you would and that may very well be part of his plan…his good and perfect plan.
Discerning God's will is a process, not a one-time event. Do not put God on your timeline. Timing is among the most challenging components of seeking God’s Will. Our vision for the future is limited. Be patient and trust that He will lead you in the right direction. Ultimately, God desires our obedience to His ways, not our ways.
And remember….Discerning His Will doesn’t mean you're always going to get it right, but it’s important if we want to discern God’s will that we look to His word and his people…it’s a dead end street if we look to the world to steer us. Paul warns us of that in Romans 12:2 Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.
We hope these insights are helpful as you navigate your decisions. If you are struggling with discerning God’s way we encourage you to seek Godly counsel. If Rock Solid Families can help, please reach out a
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