Dec 10 2024 53 mins 30
Aleeza Ben Shalom, celebrity matchmaker of Netflix’s Jewish Matchmaking, shares actionable advice to help you find your path on this dating journey with wisdom from her new book “Matchmaker, Matchmaker: Find Me a Love That Lasts”. And the Dear Damona question this week is: What are the signs that someone is interested in you?
Pre-order your copy of Aleeza's new book, “Matchmaker, Matchmaker: Find Me a Love That Lasts”, by visiting: https://marriagemindedmentor.com/book/
And, follow Aleeza on Instagram @AleezaBenShalom!
Ready to break free of your dating loops? Get Damona’s signature online program, The Dating Accelerator by visiting: DamonaHoffman.com/program
Submit your questions for Dear Damona on any of the socials @DamonaHoffman or by visiting DamonaHoffman.com
TIMESTAMPS
Intro (00:00:00)
Finding your personal dating playbook (00:01:03)
Meet Aleeza Ben Shalom (00:02:14)
Aleeza's journey as a matchmaker (00:02:50)
Date them till you hate them (00:04:02)
The three-date rule (00:05:30)
Clarity in dating decisions (00:06:37)
The importance of staying curious (00:07:25)
Navigating difficult conversations (00:10:30)
Rejection as a form of protection (00:13:20)
The five-day challenge (00:14:42)
Five Day Challenge Explained (00:15:04)
Clarifying the No Touching Rule (00:15:49)
Tips for the Challenge (00:16:36)
Importance of Connection in Dating (00:18:39)
Dating Dynamics and Tests (00:19:47)
Rules for Same-Sex Couples (00:20:33)
Calculating Relationship Compatibility (00:21:06)
Interests vs. Core Values (00:22:44)
Significance of Family Values (00:24:22)
Understanding Timelines in Relationships (00:26:53)
Self-Discovery in Dating (00:29:16)
The Five-Year Relationship Evolution (00:29:50)
The 555 Dating Rule Explained (00:30:23)
Building Momentum in Dating (00:31:04)
Chemistry and Intentional Dating (00:34:13)
Soulmate Clarity Concept (00:37:38)
Navigating Workplace Relationships (00:40:41)
Dating Gestures and Vibes (00:45:35)
Small Moves in Dating (00:46:29)
Attraction Beyond Age (00:47:22)
Investing in Clear Signals (00:48:52)
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