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我们应该如何看待人情世故？How should we view human feelings? 不离人情，关键看自己的发心。Not departing from human feelings, the keypoint rests in our aspiration.应该怎样发心？How should I arouse my aspiration?     想让我们的心更加开放、灵活、勇猛，要穿上慈悲的铠甲，拿上智慧的宝剑，把内心的�

应该怎么办？What should I do?不要当做还债，要当做结善缘。Don't treat it as paying a debt,but view itas making good connections.那别人帮了你，也应该有所回馈吧。If you got help from someone else, youshould also give something back.    把心放开，欢喜地接受他人的帮助，对方能感到付出的快乐，这也是一种回�

对，就是不愿欠人情。Yes. I just don't want to owe interpersonaldebt.“欠人情”的心态，感恩心少而不安更多，因为担心自己将来还人情的麻烦，无形中把人与人之间的关心帮助当做了交换，这是一种自我包裹的表现，是内心虚弱、自卑、怕受伤害的表现。The mentality of "owing interpersonaldebt" implies less g

提问（金心）Question ( By Jin Xin)回 答（贤勇）Answer ( By Xian Yong) 我特别害怕求人，如果谁帮了我就总想着怎么赶紧把这份情还回去，心里沉甸甸的。您帮我分析分析这是怎么回事。I am particularly afraid to ask for help. If anyone helps me, I always think about how to return it quickly, loaded with heavy psychological bur

有很多假冒的乞讨者利用我们的同情心骗取钱财，收入比我们还高。我们该如何面对那些乞讨者？Many fake beggars take advantage of ourcompassion to defraud, making even more money than we do. How should we dealwith such beggars?         把重点放在自己的善业上，懂得自己在做什么，就不会总是

亏欠心与感恩心该如何区分？ How to distinguish between a heart of thanksgiving and a feeling of debt?  亏欠的感觉，内心是封闭的，会感到欠了别人的人情、恩情而沉重不安，感恩心则是一种开放、坦然、真心实意的欢喜。虽都是受了他人的帮助，但前者是烦恼，后者是善法，源于自己内心不同方�

对骗子短暂的慈悲可能会助长他们不劳而获的习气，如果拒绝施舍可以促使他们改变，从而走上正道不是更好么？Temporary compassion for deceivers may reinforce their habit of getting something for nothing. Wouldn’t it be better if refusal to give could prompt them to change and get on the right path?  首先要有利益众生的悲

分不清真假乞丐时，我担心被骗，不愿意给骗子送钱，但就这么走过，心里同情又愧疚。该怎样办呢？ When I couldn't tell a real beggar from a fake one, I was afraid of being cheated and was reluctant to give money to a swindler, just walking by with sympathy and guilt. How to cope with that case?我们通常认为身体上的苦是苦，而�

老师好，在大街上总是遇到乞丐，无法判断是真是假，不知该不该布施，请您指导。Venerable Master, I come across beggars inthe streets very often, but can’t tell if theyare fake or not. I wonder if I should give them alms. Would you please give meyour guidance?        请讲。 Goahead.昨天我看到一�

怎么去努力呢？ How do you do that? 在平常的生活中，要多练习去看一个人的优点和付出，增长自己的感激之心。也就是多培养感恩心、惭愧心、慈悲心。这几种心的特质跟嗔心恰好相反，就像水与火一样，培养这几种心，就好比把内心的易燃物换成柔软清凉的净水，火就烧不起来了。In ordi