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We are a podcast sharing BDSM articles from Submissive Guide. We believe education and shared knowledge are key to learning and exploring BDSM and D/s relationships.Since 2009, Submissive Guide's mission has been to provide down to earth educational BDSM content that can really help people learn and explore kink and D/s relationships in a healthy way. That is our continued goal.No matter where you are in your submissive journey, we'll be there.

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Crafting Your Collaring Ceremony: Themes, Rituals, and Celebrations | Submissive Guide

Mar 06 2024 11 mins  
Receiving your collar is a special occasion for many submissives and slaves. When a collar comes into view, some people want to commemorate that with a ceremony. Let’s discuss collars, their symbolism in D/s and M/s relationships, and how you can build a formal ceremony around declaring your commitment to each other.Article: https://submissiveguide.com/dsrelationships/articles/ho

The Truth About Topping from the Bottom | Submissive Guide

Feb 07 2024 15 mins  
Let’s break down what topping from the bottom is, why it’s so bad, how it can be good, and learn some tricks to stop the poor behavior in its tracks that leads to it.Read the article: https://submissiveguide.com/fundamentals/articles/why-you-should-know-the-truth-about-topping-from-the-bottomChat with the Discord community! https://subgui.de/chatResources:Arcane Advice article

Every Good Conversation Starts with Active Listening | Submissive Guide

Dec 06 2023 11 mins  
Communication is a key topic to developing and maintaining healthy, open relationships. But many of us need to learn what good communication looks like and have problems with at least one part of good communication techniques.Read the article: https://submissiveguide.com/communication/articles/every-good-conversation-starts-with-good-listeningBecome a member and get more from Submi

Learning Good Observation Skills for Better Submissive Awareness | Submissive Guide

Nov 01 2023 12 mins  
One of the best skills a submissive can learn is observation. Observation can also be neglected in your daily and work life, so learning requires you to reteach your mind, eyes, focus, and attention. It's so worth it.Read the article: https://submissiveguide.com/skills/articles/learning-good-observation-skillsFurther Reading:Anticipatory ServicePersonality and Behavior Tests:M

What Everyone Ought to Know About Finding and Managing BDSM Limits | Submissive Guide

Oct 04 2023 16 mins  
Your limits are unique to you and may change over time as you gain experience and self-awareness. Embrace the opportunity for self-discovery and pleasure as you unlock the secrets to understanding and embracing your BDSM limits.Read the Article: https://submissiveguide.com/fundamentals/articles/what-everyone-ought-to-know-about-finding-and-managing-limits Further Reading:BDSM Limit

Moans, Groans, and Beyond: A Beginner’s Guide to Dirty Talk | Submissive Guide

Aug 02 2023 16 mins  
Explore the journey of embracing dirty talk. With practical tips, personal stories, and valuable resources, readers are encouraged to break free from inhibitions and discover the liberating potential of vocalizing desires and fantasies.Read the article: https://submissiveguide.com/fundamentals/articles/how-to-talk-dirtyFurther Reading:How to Be Responsive During PlayExhibitionism f

On-Demand Ecstasy: Initiating Your Orgasm Control Training | Submissive Guide

Jul 05 2023 12 mins  
A beginner's guide that explores the practice of orgasm control and its potential for enhancing pleasure. The first in the series, this article covers the first steps to exploring orgasm control in your play.Resources on Orgasm Control Mechanics:Orgasm Control by RoverOrgasm Control Conditioning of Females on FetLifeTrain Your Body to Orgasm on CommandOrgasm Control Training:

The Importance of Rules and Structure in D/s Relationships | Submissive Guide

Jun 07 2023 12 mins  
In D/s (Dominant/submissive) relationships, rules are often used to provide structure and establish boundaries within the power exchange dynamic. These rules serve as a guide for submissives to follow, which allows us to focus on our submission and the expectations of our Dominant partner.Read the Article: https://submissiveguide.com/dsrelationships/articles/structure-rulesBecome a

How to Use Erotic Begging to Intensify Your Kinky Playtime | Submissive Guide

May 03 2023 14 mins  
Being asked to beg for something is one of the simplest forms of erotic humiliation within a BDSM scenario. It’s also one that can be quite difficult for people to learn.Read the article on Submissive Guide: https://submissiveguide.com/skills/articles/how-to-beg-when-asked Submissive Guide FetLife Group: http://subgui.de/fetlifeOther people's thoughts on begging:Begging In

Expectations of a Collar: How Ready Are You to Accept One? | Submissive Guide

Apr 05 2023 13 mins  
Wearing a Dominant’s collar is often a goal of any submissive in a D/s relationship. However, defining what a collar is and how you prepare to accept it can be daunting. Let’s tackle the important points about collars and if you are prepared for what a collar may mean for you and your relationship.Read the Article: https://submissiveguide.com/dsrelationships/articles/expectatio