40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk.

Nov 15 2024 300 ep. 27 mins 2.1k
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Welcome to the only podcast exploring the messiness, awesomeness, of masculinity of being a gay man over 40. Each episode is about sparking idea, addressing challenges, and diving deep into what it looks like to be a vulnerable gay guy. We talk about the stuff us gay guys have a hard time talking about, man-to-man: masculinity, sex, careers, our bodies, parenting, sexuality, failures, success, and aging, relationships, coming out - nothing is off limits. 40 Plus: Gay Men Gay Talk is the revamped version of 40 Plus: Real Men. Real Talk podcast and is a short format podcast that's easy to digest. We take deep dives - one topic at a time - digging up the truth of what it’s like to be a gay man, instead of some contrived expectation of masculinity. We’re reclaiming manhood and our masculinity by facing our fears, making bold moves, and living life without apologies. Join us, but you've got to drop your BS, forget posturing, and be ready to explore the comical dysfunctions of our lives as gay men 40+ years of age!

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303: Confidence to embrace the master and slave within for an amazing life – Philip Poole

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301: The Art of LGBTQ Affirming Therapy and Sex Positivity – Ann Russo

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301: Standing Proud, Meeting The Moment – Voting For Your Life – Rick Clemons

Nov 01 2024 9 mins  
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300: How To Love Someone Without Losing Your Mind – Todd Baratz

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299: How to move from apathy, empathy, and Into action – Darren Calhoun

Oct 18 2024 42 mins  
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298: National Coming Out Day and Get Out To Vote – Rick Clemons

Oct 11 2024 11 mins  
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297: How to release yourself into the fantasy and reality of being a sexual being – Emma Sayle

Oct 04 2024 33 mins  
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296: Exploring the Girth Of Your Manhood – Dr. Joel Pash

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295: Jin DeLuong – The Naked Way To Connect – With or Without Sex

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294: Unleashing the Monsters In Our Closets – Mark Julien

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