Reclaimed & Unashamed

May 22 2024
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Are you tired of struggling with porn and want to quit, but don't know where to start? Welcome to the Reclaimed & Unashamed podcast, where we help men break the shame and rewire their brains so they can start living a porn-free life. In this podcast, your host Kolton Thomas will share science, stories, and strategies to help you grow in self-awareness and self-control over your life and your habits online. We invite you to listen to our weekly episodes and join our community of men who can honestly say they've been RECLAIMED from the struggle with pornography. 

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May 22 2024 38 mins  
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Fear Unmasked: Decoding the Relationship Between Rejection and Unwanted Behaviors (With Allan Stanford)

Nov 24 2023 34 mins  
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Nov 03 2023 23 mins  
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Sep 12 2023 21 mins  
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Aug 14 2023 29 mins  
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Jul 10 2023 54 mins  
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Jun 12 2023 54 mins  
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Mar 30 2023 27 mins  
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