Real Talk with Oumaima Lou

Now I know heart break is not easy. It may even be one of the most painful things to experience. You may not like to hear everything in this video but it’s what you NEED to hear and know. You will be okay.

As you get older, you realize that beauty comes from waaaay more things that just appearance. You can be gorgeous and if you do these habits, trust me, you lose a lot of your pretty points. Taking responsibility of your life, being kind, and loving others is so attractive and will make YOU feel better about yourself. DO BETTER!

When I discovered 9aba, I discovered what it looks like to not be someone who lets their environment or their financial status dictate what they do and how far they go in life. With the determination and mindset I have seen in him, I don't doubt one bit he will reach not only career success, but he will grow immensely through his growth mindset. I hope you enjoy getting to know

Embracing solitude means giving yourself the opportunity to get to know know yourself. It teaches you to accept who you are and it makes you love your own presence which ultimately gives you the power to make better choices in all of your relationships. Let’s dig into it ✨

It took a long time for me to find true friends. Most importantly, it took awhile for me to understand what makes a good friend and to try to incorporate that in myself first. I tell you about a friendship I appreciate in my life, my avoidant attachement style, and how we can aspire to be a good friend ourselves.

One of the biggest argument I hear about self belief is what if I believe in myself and fail? The misconception lies on that self belief means « I must succeed », but that’s not what self believe and confidence is for. Let’s real talk about it.

Whether it’s accepting our body, our mistakes, our regrets, or accepting the reality of losing a loved one, not getting that opportunity we want, or getting sick, accepting what we cannot change has to be one of the hardest things in life.

If a new year motivates you to make positive changes but doing hard things is something you feel incapable of, this is for you! I go over some things you must start doing, but I also help you understand how to become able of doing hard things because strategy is key! Happy new year beautiful people 🤍 Thank you for 1 year of Real Talk with Oumaima Lou. Your support has meant so m

When we’re going through something hard, stressful, or when we feel lost, we unfortunately lose sight of any good in life. It’s as if we are walking in a foggy street blinded by what’s ahead of us. These reminders are eye opening and are exactly what you need to hear in those times 🫶🏼

The real question is not: why do people treat me badly? It’s rather: why do I let them? This episode goes over all aspects of how people treat you and how you need handle it.