You're Not Stuck

Apr 01 2024

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From rom-com author to women empowerment advocate, Kat Addams guides women on the enlightened path to becoming unstuck. As a domestic abuse survivor, she tackles the nitty-gritty of what it takes to liberate yourself and embark on a journey to freedom from miserable situations. Kat’s no bull-shit approach to self-transformation includes shameless insights, progressive practices, and spiritual growth with a heavy dose of humor and f-bombs. If you’re looking for a sign to leave, this is it. You’re not stuck. Join the journey and start taking charge of your life by listening now. New episodes drop every Monday to start your week off strong. Also, Mondays suck. Kat's here to make it better.

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Escaping Toxicity: In Every Way

Apr 01 2024 26 mins

Today, we close our series on Lundy Bancroft's "Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men," underscoring a hard truth: we cannot alter an abusive partner, but we can transform our own path. And concluding that ... I have some news. This mama needs a break. Tune in for news of my burnout and what I'm doing about it. Hint: it's not mo

Understanding His Toxic Behavior: Part 6

Mar 25 2024 29 mins

Finally ... we are nearing the finish line on our book study! This week, tune in to talk about love-bombing, safety protocols for getting out of a toxic relationship, and also I may ramble on a bit about me and the D's fitness journey. What's not to love? You can hear hot gossip and also motivate yourself to dump the douche.Thank you so much for listening! I hope you enjo

Understanding His Toxic Behavior: Part 5

Mar 18 2024 54 mins

Today we're discussing my favorite part of Lundy Bancroft's book, Why Does He Do That? Let's dive into the many different types of abusers and learn their red flags. Do you have a Mr. Right in your life, a terrorist, or maybe even a player? If you have a toxic man, tune in to learn his ins and outs, and better yet--how to GTFO!Thank you so much for listening! I hope

Understanding His Toxic Behavior: Part 4

Mar 04 2024 37 mins

Ready for more hard truth bombs? Today, we're continuing to discuss the realities of why your toxic partner treats you like crap. If you're looking for red flags, and a better understanding of why you feel so confused on the rollercoaster you call a relationship, here's your sign.Thank you so much for listening! I hope you enjoyed this podcast. If so, please leave a

Understanding His Toxic Behavior: Part 3

Feb 26 2024 31 mins

Hop aboard the no-bs train and listen up. In this episode, we're continuing to hack the minds of abusive men and arm ourselves with the knowledge of why he behaves like a lunatic. We're continuing Lundy Bancroft's book study series, and specifically digging into detailed hard truths today. So, put on your big girl panties, and let's go. Thank you so much for lis

Understanding His Toxic Behavior: Part 2

Feb 19 2024 36 mins

We're back and still studying Lundy Bancroft's wonderful book, Why Does He Do That?This week I'm explaining the myths (aka excuses) abusers use to justify their behavior. According to Lundy, there is a lot to unpack here. Do you blame your partner's behavior on his childhood? How about alcohol? Ex-partner who did him wrong? We're debunking all of that and e

Why Does Your Toxic Partner Behave So Badly?

Feb 05 2024 25 mins

We are finally diving into the book, Why Does He Do That by Lundy Bancroft! In today's episode we are uncovering the mystery behind an abuser's toxic behavior. If you find yourself constantly saying, "I don't understand," after your man has an explosive episode, this one may be for you! Listen in as we kick-off this book study series and learn why our partn

Reflective Awakening: The Urgency of Living True to Ourselves

Jan 29 2024 39 mins

Have you ever ever woken up one day and asked yourself, "Where the heck has all the time gone?" Maybe it's me reaching middle-age, or maybe I'm just feeling the weight of January, but I have some morbid news for you---nobody lives forever. The moment you've been waiting for may never come. It's up to you to decide how you want to shape yourself and you

Oregon Drizzle to NYC Sizzle: Three Lessons I Learned in 2023 To Carry Into 2024

Jan 15 2024 40 mins

Turning 40 in the pulsating heart of New York City was more than a landmark birthday celebration; it sparked a reawakening and shift in my mission toward advocating for victims of abuse. Come along as I discuss the lessons I learned traveling from coast to coast last year. We'll crawl through crowds, give some proper FU's, and dance in the rain. The journey isn't alw

Feminine Energy Unleashed: Conquering Internalized Misogyny

Jan 08 2024 42 mins

Have you ever noticed that sometimes the most damaging critiques come from your own mind? I know, I've been there; questioning my worth, my appearance, my decisions - all because of societal norms ingrained deep within my psyche. Tune in as I share my solidarity and journey towards triumphing over internalized misogyny. We'll talk about the insidious concept of "pick