ask a sub

Mar 07 2025 100 ep. 23 mins 392
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Ask a Sub is an advice podcast for the kink-curious to take themselves from dreaming to doing. Our host Lina Dune is bringing wellness kink to the masses, and equipping every would-be kinkster with the tools to become their own BDSM BFF.

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107. Trust Your Sub Swoons

Mar 07 2025 24 mins  
A listener calls in wondering how in god’s name to deal with having a CRUSH on a CIS MAN?!? (Valid). Lina gives an answer about trusting your body and not letting weird Christian plagiarists from the year 100 run your life in 2025. ASK A SUB MEMBERSHIP HAS CHANGED! To get all the benefits including our discord server, archive of premium audio and written posts, as well as our new

105. Cupid Likes It Up The Ass

Feb 14 2025 27 mins  
Lina shares a million thoughts on anal sex from a sub’s perspective including sweet meditations on the butt’s position as a metaphor for the liminal space between our conscious and subconscious minds, as well as meditations on what to do if your butt plug is about to fall out at a public wine tasting. Happy Valentine’s, sluts!!!! Get Lina’s favorite anal sex memoir The Surr

104. Protocol Brain Dump

Feb 07 2025 18 mins  
A sub in an M/s dynamic calls in wondering how to integrate more long distance service into their dynamic and Lina nerds out on protocol in great detail. A brain dump if you will. (I’m NOT going to make a scat play joke. I would NEVER.) To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $6/month! Submit questions for thi

103. Let’s Talk About Latex!

Jan 24 2025 22 mins  
Calling all rubber buggy baby kinksters… let’s take a hard 180 away from the doomscroll and talk about the surprising history of the latex kink. From fashion runways to kiddie pools of piss, this versatile fabric has a lot to offer the freaks of the world. Lina’s book recommendations (I get 10% of your order!) Life, Leather, and the Pursuit of Happiness (Steve Lenius) From F

102. When Is Romance A Limit?

Jan 17 2025 32 mins  
A listener calls in feeling big feelings about a new Dom, and Lina talks about making the most of the safe havens we find along the road to our dream situation. And maybe covering those safe havens in saliva a bit, idk!! Sign up to hear about upcoming offerings here. Snag your office hours appointment here. Mr. Dune Deep Dive info. Daddy Issues series on Patreon or Substack. To sup

101. Tough Love For People Pleasers

Jan 13 2025 19 mins  
Hey!! Hey you!! Stop worrying about upsetting people with your very reasonable needs and requests! In today’s episode, a caller worries that their Dom is upset by their needs/wants/suggestions, and Lina goes Big Sister Mode to set them straight. To get the full version of this episode Join Patreon at $11/month or substack at $8/month. Subscribe to the subby substack here. See the

100. Abolish The Family with Sophie Lewis & An Erotica Surprise

Jan 03 2025 23 mins  
No family?! Community kitchens?! Mandatory orgies?! Less social isolation?! This is the future the left wants, and Lina is forcing it down your throat this week alongside brilliant guest Sophie Lewis who wrote the book on family abolition. Join us for a discussion about tentacle porn, muppet theory, and liberatory queer futures. To get the full version of this episode Join Patreon

99. Fear Is Good, Actually

Dec 27 2024 29 mins  
This Christmas, fear isn’t just for the ballot box. That’s right, a caller wants to know how to negotiate with fear around kinks, edges, and, the scariest monster of all, the terrifying ordeal of being Known by another human being. Also in the intro Lina sets expectations for Babygirl (medium) and encourages all of you to get to work on your kinky screenplays in 2025. Kinky Mo

98. Queer Pill Your Holidays

Dec 20 2024 30 mins  
A caller wants to know if straight people are ruining kink, and Lina gets into the history of gentrification in the kink world and how well-meaning straights can use their kink for good. Also a diatribe on how Fake Doms have class-traitor vibes. Sorry it had to be said!! To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $

97. Debuting Your Kinks: A Formula

Dec 13 2024 28 mins  
Ever wondered how to drop the news of some of your less mainstream kinks in a relationship? You know… the really head-turning ones that would shock polite company? The ones that keep you up at night googling really specific gear? The ones that pop up in your head even as you’re trying to write the description of your podcast?? Well this week Lina is sharing an actionable formul