BFF: Black, Fat, Femme

Mar 25 2025 140 ep. 74 mins 125

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"The B.F.F. Podcast” gives voice to two of the leading queer, fat and Black changemakers while calling in the world to examine and understand what it means to love oneself unapologetically - in a world where loving oneself often feels impossible.

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Five G's Please! (Featuring Latrice Royale)

Mar 25 2025 71 mins

This week your BFF's are joined by the queen Goddess Latrice M*tha F*ckin' Royale - A house fave contestant of Rupaul's Drag Race and We're Here fame - to talk he legacy in drag, what it was like to be asked to write a foreword on a book and why the book is so important and needed now. Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here! Support Victims of the Eaton & Palisade Fires Here

Rewind: Dare to Be Outspoken

Mar 18 2025 68 mins

Originally released March 20, 2023. This week we discuss what it means to be outspoken, how Jon loves a secret menu and why all debt should be forgiven. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: [email protected] Buy Jon's book: https://www.doctorjonpaul.com/blackfatfemmebook Watch us on the Tube

If It's Free, It's For Me (Featuring Marcy Guevara-Prete)

Mar 11 2025 88 mins

This week your BFF's chat with Marcy Guevara-Prete about sizism, fat fashion and why The Plus Bus is so much more than just a boutique. We also get into a conversation about forgiveness and why we are gonna need to offer more grace to those in community, especially now. Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here! Support Victims of the Eaton & Palisade Fires Here! Make the

They Don't Know GAWD! (Featuring Bay Davis)

Mar 04 2025 68 mins

This week your BFF's link with the illustrious Bay Davis to talk being Black 365, why we need to redefine community (yes we go there) and why we are so thankful to be Black, fat, femmes. Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here! Support Victims of the Eaton & Palisade Fires Here! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email

Don't Do It Babes...

Feb 25 2025 71 mins

This week your BFF's share their thoughts about living in (not-so-always-sunny) SoCal and what things folks need to consider when they tell BFF's that they will be "fine" in this climate, considering all the things we are up against. We also revisit the topic of authenticity and talk openly about why we need to stop telling folks NOT to be scared. Buy DoctorJonPaul's book her

Question EVERYTHING (Featuring Jessica Marie Garcia)

Feb 18 2025 85 mins

This week your BFF's continue to celebrate Black History Month by talking to our favorite accomplice Jessica Marie Garcia about why, now more than ever - we have to work in solidarity to get free. We also talk about the true meaning of farm-to-table and why in 2025, we don't need another thinking piece. Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here! Support Victims of the Eaton & P

Black Anthems and a Sexy Catfish (Featuring Jade & XD)

Feb 11 2025 60 mins

This week your BFF's celebrate Black history by hanging out with the one and only Jade & XD (Jade & XD/Gettin' Grown) to talk about both our favorite Black history moments and our favorite Black history anthems. We also give the cold and the horns in NYC their flowers. Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here! Support Victims of the Eaton & Palisade Fires Here! M

That Dopamine Hit

Feb 04 2025 68 mins

This week your BFF's dive a bit deeper into the DEI conversation, while touching on a much needed conversation around capitalism and asking the question, "Can capitalism ever be equitable?" We also get into why Bojangles (didn't) hit in Las Vegas and why people need to walk their dogs on a leash. Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here! Support Victims of the Eaton & Palisade

That's All I Got, and All I Had

Jan 27 2025 62 mins

This week, the BFFs are getting silly! We talking about some of our favorite historically Black phrases (see, what happened was...we got inspired by our good judys). Catch the phrases that move our spirit as we talk about how having McDonald's money has healed our inner children. Also, Joho rants about why One of Them Days is a must-see movie. Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here!&nb

An Ode to Altadena

Jan 21 2025 74 mins

Last week your BFF's sent love and light to those impacted by the fires of Altadena, but this week we wanted to get into what makes the city so important and special. We also chat about ways we each can help build/re-build community and why so many of us are tired of people making MAGA their personality. Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here! Support Victims of the Eaton &