Can We Get Your Number?

In this episode we are on location in beautiful Pioneer, CA for our 3rd annual poly ‘camping’ trip! And we introduce all of our weirdos!

In this episode, We learn what a paragon is, decide that we might have openings in the family for enneagrams 3, 4, and 8, and why you need a 3 to calendar for your polycule. Also here is the link to get your own mini dip!Minidip.com

In this episode of Can We Get Your Number, we do a deep dive into Kellie's number - Enneagram 2. We'll get in to why she wants to be loved by the world, the torture of not being able to help, and how to stay out of the web of neglect. We also talk about how polyamory is just a different type of hard than monogamy and why we choose this kind of hard.

Number one this week, we do a deep dive into Enneagram number one. Our special guest is Randy J. Warner, the podcast producer and Mr. Shiloh. We talk about frosting, Wild Boyz, and Randy finds out he is actually a 1 when he thought he was a 9. Join us for this super fun and funny interview!

In this episode, Kellie and Shiloh do a deep dive into Enneagram 9. Shiloh is the resident 9 and she gets in to all the details on what it's like to be a peacemaker. She talks about why she doesn't want to be annihilated, how trauma combined with anxious attachment is a shit sandwich, and how probably everyone hates her. It's good, juicy stuff!

In this episode, we deep dive in to Enneagram 8's: the Challenger. We discover that 8's get off on being big, alive, assertive, and highly charged personalities. We discuss different ways that will help you know if you're an 8 and what your superpowers are. And we think we make up the word conflictive, but we actually make up the word conflicty!

In Episode 4, Kellie and Shiloh talk about the head triad: enneagram numbers 5, 6, and 7! There is talk about avoiding the danger zone, collecting underpants, and many other offshoots and tangents!! Enjoy this episode!

Shiloh and Kellie talk about the heart triad, enneagram numbers 2, 3, and 4. They talk about how feelings are jerks, solve all the problems for 2s, and reference Jesus, Harry Potter, and Lord of the Rings. Enjoy this episode and see how it all fits together…or doesn’t!

Kellie and Shiloh talk about the Gut Triad, how those numbers (8, 9, 1) might react when their partners have NRE, and a glimpse into Randy and Shiloh: the early years.

In this episode, Shiloh and Kellie introduce the Can We Get Your Number? podcast, types of non-monogamous relationships, and the general outline of the nine enneagram types. We talk about how the enneagram could be useful in navigating various polyamorous challenges and give some insight into our own brand of family chaos. Plus, you will get to hear the juicy details of one of our