Dating Bi Design

Aug 30 2022 12 ep. 32 mins 17
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Join me on my journey through the wild world of dating and relationships.

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11. Dating with Herpes Part II (Season 1 Finale)

Aug 30 2022 48 mins  
It's the end of season one of Dating Bi Design podcast, and we're ending on a high note with part two of my conversation with Gina about dating with herpes. In this episode, we talk about how and when to disclose, the predatory nature of STI-positive dating apps, and a few of our favorite HSV+ comedians, actors, and influencers.   I hope to be back for season two very soo

10. Dating with Herpes Part I with Gina

Aug 23 2022 44 mins  
I have herpes. Somewhere between 1 in 6 and 1 in 3 people do too, so odds are good you either have it or know someone who does. And it's not a big deal! This week, in Part I of this two-part series, Gina and I talk about our diagnoses and the limitations of healthcare providers to give compassionate and accurate information. Go get tested for STI's, friends! And don't forget to as

09. Quickie: How to do a relationship inventory

Aug 16 2022 13 mins  
This week we're unpacking our relationship patterns. I can't promise it will be easy, but it will probably be illuminating. Snag your relationship inventory template here: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1NrfREM3DaUO6o_dgiAStPO9ltFnguU-MS9i2joOrcPI/edit?usp=sharing. Email me your dating and relationship questions to [email protected] and I'll answer them (anonymously!

08. Working Out The Kinks: Sexual Communication and the Yes/No/Maybe List

Aug 09 2022 34 mins  
How do I tell my partner what I want? How do I ask my partner what they want? How do I even know what I like or what I’m into?! We’re back this week with an episode to help tackle all of these questions and more. The yes/no/maybe list is an invaluable tool for sexual communication. You can make a copy here: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1scT65kuyebwvu2-M4g2GgVx_AalVNB8

07. The Baby Dater's Guide to First Dates

Jul 26 2022 31 mins  
The mere mention of a first date can send chills up the spines of single people everywhere. Most people hate dating. But I am convinced that dating can—and should—be fun. This week, I give advice that can help you find success and joy on your first dates. Whether you're fresh back on the dating scene or a seasoned pro, you'll get lots of actionable tips to improve your dating l

06. Feminism and Fish Pics with Krista Aldrich

Jul 19 2022 40 mins  
In this episode, I sit down with my resident expert on modern feminist theory, Krista. We chat about the male gaze vs female gaze, wanting someone to survive late-stage capitalism with, and the fish pic phenomenon. Book recommendations from this episode include Gentlemen Prefer Blondes by Anita Loos, Women and Other Monsters by Jess Zimmerman, and The Madwoman in the Attic by Sandr

05. Book Review: Mating in Captivity by Esther Perel

Jul 12 2022 28 mins  
On this week's episode, I do a deep-dive review of Esther Perel's incredible book, Mating in Captivity. Topics include: being a hot mess in my early 20s, the pitfalls of modern talk-supremacy, and why "unplug it and plug it back in" is excellent dating advice.

04. Bi as in "Bi Myself"

Jul 05 2022 29 mins  
Join me for a quickie this week as I unpack my bisexuality: how I came out, what it's like to feel like you don't fit in to the queer community, and even my experience as a unicorn.

03. Cultivating Ease Part II with Kristen Prosen

Jun 28 2022 50 mins  
Kristen is back for part two of our conversation on cultivating ease in relationships. In the second half of this convo, we talk about the specific wellness interventions we can make to regulate our nervous systems when we're going through new relationship energy or relationship-ending energy. BONUS: Download the dating self care toolkit here: https://www.herbsandease.com/datingse

02. Cultivating Ease Part I with Kristen Prosen

Jun 21 2022 40 mins  
In this two-part series, I talk with wellness educator and herbalist, Kristen Prosen from Herbs and Ease. We discuss the physiology of new relationship energy and the importance of establishing nervous system regulation to handle the ups and down of dating. Follow Kristen on Instagram @herbsandease and listen to the Herbs and Ease podcast wherever you get your podcasts.