Handing the Shame Back

Dec 10 2024 389 ep. 20 mins 1

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This channel is dedicated to all those brave fellow 'adult survivors of child sexual abuse'. You are not alone out there, you are believed and supported in finding your voice & handing the shame back to the abusers - where it belongs.

Each week I will add another interview with a 'fellow survivor' to help support our community in finding their way to truth and freedom, which only real truth can bring. Please feel free to reach out if you would also like to be a guest on the show.

About Me: I too am a survivor of child sexual abuse spanning sixteen years. I have written a book called On Angels' Wings - My Flight from Trauma to Grace.

I also blog monthly on https://www.handingtheshameback.org/

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HTSB Xmas Board Message

Dec 10 2024 3 mins

Here is our Xmas Message from the Board at Handing the Shame Back Foundation, to all the amazing survivors, supporters and sponsors we have. Thank you so much, and from all of us, Merry Xmas to you.#handingtheshameback #handsign4kids #letssavesomekidsWe are on all social media platforms:Website: https://www.handingtheshameback.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameB

Blog: It's Christmas

Dec 03 2024 5 mins

It’s Christmas.Getting through Christmas, can be an overwhelming ask for us as survivors. While many people experience joy and celebration during this time, we can feel the opposite through difficult emotions, painful memories, and feelings of isolation surfacing.Here’s some ideas that may just help.Love to all of you.► Visit our website for more information on our foundation

Survivor Tip: Managing

Nov 26 2024 1 mins

This time of year can be difficult when trying to manage end of year events, Xmas interactions and school concerts. Try to find time to ground yourself by remembering to reflect on you, what you have managed to achieve and the incredible survivor you are.It should be about you, not just those you love.We are on all social media platforms:Website: https://www.handingtheshameback.org

Survivor Interview: Deb Aldrick

Nov 12 2024 50 mins

Deb AldrickAuthor. Speaker. AdvocateDeb was abused from 5 - 14 by a family member while another family member did nothing to protect her. Pre-abuse she was happy and confident, and enjoyed life with lots of friends. Post-abuse she became anxious and a worrier.To reach Deb go to: https://dragonflyadvocacy.com.au/or Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dragonflyadvocacy/or Instagram htt

Survivor Interview: Raymond Lum

Nov 05 2024 38 mins

Meet Raymond LumSurvivor and Film ProducerAs a young boy, he was sexually abused by their female live in nanny for years. When he eventually told his father the response was ‘Look out for your brother’.To reach Raymond go to: https://www.facebook.com/sting16 or https://www.instagram.com/raymondtlum/HELPNZ Sexual Harm Helpline, 0800 044 334 or text 4334, [email protected]. H

Blog: Coercive Control

Oct 31 2024 5 mins

As survivors of child sexual abuse, it is widely accepted that we were controlled through grooming simply so the abuser could exploit us. What is less discussed is the coercive control that lay underneath all of it. What that meant (for some of us), is that we weren’t just controlled through sexual abuse, there was also the emotional and physical manipulation as well. How that im

Blog: Resolution

Oct 23 2024 4 mins

Be aware if you are deciding on how to confront your abuser, your emotions will be running at an all time high, and therefore deciding on something of this importance may not serve you - Yet!It will in time, but maybe just not today. Because this is of such huge significance, please allow yourself further clarity of thought as the last thing you need is to regret your decision late

Survivor Interview: Kel Humphries - Part 2

Oct 20 2024 23 mins

Meet Kel HumphriesSurvivor. Advocate. Speaker. Researcher.She was abused by her Uncle between ages 7 - 8, and recognises the grooming for what it was. He knew exactly what he was doing, her parents had no idea.For more on her reach out to her at kellyhumphries.comHELPNZ Sexual Harm Helpline, 0800 044 334 or text 4334, [email protected]. Help Auckland 0800 623 1700. Male Survivo

Survivor Tip: Losing Your Voice

Oct 17 2024 1 mins

Losing your voiceAs children being abused we couldn't speak, because our brain froze.This is a trauma response, and just so you know: when your brain is flooded with cortizal there is no way you can speak, as this is a chemical reaction which cannot be controlled.Go to our website for more information on resources available, and if you are looking for coaching whether survivor or s

Gloria Masters interviewed by Shaun Attwood (Oct 2024)

Oct 16 2024 95 mins

Gloria returns to Shaun’s platform to discuss the impact of CSA on survivors in light of the current media storm around P Diddy. She shares her story and offers insight and ideas into how to combat this to protect our children. For more on her go to handingtheshameback.org and gloriamasters.com All links to her books can be found there in all versions as well as on amazon.https:/