Here to Find Love

Sep 06 2024 30 ep. 56 mins 8
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A show where two Asian American dating coaches go deep on frothy shit. We unpack the relationship psychology and dating themes on reality TV shows, especially The Bachelor. Tune in for our weekly analysis of every episode of The Bachelor, The Bachelorette, Bachelor in Paradise, and Golden Bachelor, as well as other popular dating shows and movies.

For video recaps, head on over to our YouTube Channel (youtube.com/HereToFindLove).

Get personal with us on Instagram: @heretofindloveshow

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The most horrific ending to a Bachelorette season | The Bachelorette recap: Jenn’s season finale

Sep 06 2024 81 mins  
We’re in shock.Jenn Tran’s Bachelorette story comes to a horrifying ending in the season finale, and we are devastated and frankly livid with this franchise. In this Bachelorette recap, we review the season finale where we learn Jenn and Devin’s engagement came to a near-immediate end shortly after filming ended and then see a disgustingly cruel After the Final Rose live fina

Jenn’s anxious fairytale | The Bachelorette recap: Jenn’s fantasy suites & Men Tell All

Aug 29 2024 91 mins  
Fantasy suites brought us *two* surprise confessions of love, and if we’re being honest, neither of them felt great.In this Bachelorette recap of Jenn Tran’s season episodes 8 & 9, we deep dive into Jenn’s connection with Marcus and why she’s so invested in making their relationship work when there’s little reciprocation— and why one of us (for better or worse... er

Are Jenn’s men falling behind? | The Bachelorette recap: Jenn’s hometowns

Aug 21 2024 58 mins  
Why did Jenn’s hometown dates feel so… concerning?It’s hometowns week on Jenn Tran’s season of The Bachelorette (Season 21, Episode 7). Usually hometowns is a big ol’ nothing-burger, but Jenn’s hometowns with Devin, Jeremy, Jonathon, and Marcus actually raised many new questions and concerns about her final four men and the relationships she has with each of them. Devin

Jenn’s past vs. her future | The Bachelorette recap: Episode 5, Jenn’s season

Aug 14 2024 45 mins  
This episode helped us learn a lot about Jenn - and it was heartbreaking. In this Bachelorette recap of episode 5 of Jenn’s Bachelorette season with special guest Jeremy, we break down her dates with Jonathon and Grant. We chat about Austin self-eliminating created an important vibe shift to her season, and one of Jenn’s most vulnerable moments to date. We go over why going bac

The Jennn and Sam M breakup, explained | The Bachelorette recap: Episode 6, Jenn’s season

Aug 14 2024 61 mins  
Sam M goes off-script, and Jenn sends him packing!In this Bachelorette 2024 Episode 6 of Jenn’s season, Jenn has her first one-on-one date with Marcus. We weren’t totally sure about Marcus — we’ve heard some fairly gruesome allegations about his past and we don’t know if he’s ready to get married with Jenn — but we can finally see why Jenn likes him so much. We talk a

Jenn and Sam M’s disturbing date | The Bachelorette recap: Episode 4, Jenn’s season

Jul 30 2024 60 mins  
We don’t often get a Bachelor date with so many red flags to unpack all at once, but the one-on-one between Jenn and Sam M. was really chock full of concerning moments. In this Bachelorette recap of episode 4 of Jenn’s Bachelorette season, we break down each interaction from this date and what went wrong, from the way he unilaterally made decisions on her behalf to ignoring her

Can Jenn break her patterns? | Bachelorette recap 2024: Episode 3, Jenn’s season

Jul 23 2024 69 mins  
It’s week 3 and we’ve finally formulated a theory for Jenn’s season! Let’s get into it.In this Bachelorette 2024 Episode 3 recap, the conflict hasn’t stopped and Thomas N and Sam M are continuing to perpetuate a culture of pettiness and negativity. We chat through their (many) red flags obsessing over the other men in the house, putting down Sam N, and focusing on anythin

The villains emerge | Bachelorette recap 2024: Episode 2, Jenn’s season

Jul 17 2024 70 mins  
It’s only week 2, and the villains are already emerging. But… which guy is it?In The Bachelorette 2024 Episode 2, conflict begins to brew among Jenn Tran’s men—in particular, between Devin, Aaron, and Thomas N. Devin is quickly becoming a controversial character, with some fans on the internet saying he did nothing wrong and others already ready to get him off the screen. I

First impressions of Jenn Tran and her men | Bachelorette Season 21 Episode 1 Recap

Jul 09 2024 52 mins  
We’ve been waiting all season for Jenn Tran’s season premiere, and it did not disappoint! The episode kicks off with Jenn’s intro package where she opens up about her Asian-American background, her passion being a physical assistant, and her history with toxic relationships. We start the night at a new mansion (!) where she meets her 25 men — and she gives her first impress

This season was for the girls | Bachelor Finale: Joey’s season

Mar 26 2024 37 mins  
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