Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!

Mar 11 2025 79 ep. 57 mins
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We're Behk & LAH /ehl-uh/ and we are your hosts of the podcast, Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My! We have casual conversations with brave people about their past toxic relationships with a funny, light-heartedness that might have you crying but hopefully, some laughing too.

Our mission is to shed light on toxic relationships, providing a source of comfort, knowledge, and guidance for those who have experienced or are currently in such relationships. We have each experienced toxic relationships. After years of therapy and healing, we want to let you know it’s possible to break free. It’s not easy, but it's possible and absolutely worth it. Oh my, let's get into it!
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Fearlessly Unlearning a Toxic Childhood

Mar 11 2025 43 mins  
In this episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!, Behk and LAH sit down with Jessica, a resilient woman who has overcome unimaginable childhood trauma and broken the cycles of abuse in her family. Jessica opens up about her father, an alcoholic who fathered nine children and subjected her to verbal and mental abuse while forcing her to care for her younger siblings

REPLAY: Escaping the Hobosexual Trap

Mar 04 2025 50 mins  
In this episode, we delve into Melanie's story of resilience and determination as she recounts her journey of breaking free from the clutches of a toxic relationship. Melanie, with her idyllic childhood and a heart brimming with kindness, thought she had found a life partner in James when they connected through a dating app. However, what began as a promising romance soon turned in

Slaying Demons with Kim Davis

Feb 25 2025 47 mins  
In this episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!, hosts Behk and LAH sit down with fellow podcaster Kim Davis, co-host of Slaycation, to explore her personal journey of healing from a childhood with an abusive, tyrant father. Kim opens up about how these early experiences influenced her relationships in her 20s, leading her to mirror the toxic behaviors she had lea

50 Shades of D&D

Feb 18 2025 108 mins  
In this eye-opening episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters and Cheaters, Oh My!, hosts Behk and LAH sit down with Charlotte Rivers, a brave woman who shares her unsettling experience within the gaming community, which was marred by toxic masculinity. Charlotte takes us through her journey of finding a supportive, inclusive gaming community—only for it to be shattered by rampant sexi

Unmasking Covert Narcissists

Feb 11 2025 71 mins  
Growing up with a covert narcissistic mother, Michelle was conditioned to accept toxic relationships—leading her to marry a covert narcissistic husband. For years, she carried the weight of the relationship, handling everything on her own while seeking therapy to heal. When she finally recognized the patterns of manipulation and emotional abuse, she decided enough was enough.In t

Game Over, Player One

Feb 04 2025 81 mins  
In this episode, we sit down with Alice, who shares her compelling and heart-wrenching journey from growing up in a family with a special needs brother to navigating a marriage marked by narcissism, selfishness, and infidelity. Alice's story sheds light on the emotional toll of being in a relationship where one partner refuses to grow up, leaving the other to shoulder the weight of

Nice Guy, Big Problem

Jan 28 2025 59 mins  
In this episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!, co-hosts Behk and LAH are joined by Rena, who discusses her shocking and emotional experience with Pitre, a man who seemed perfect on the surface but was hiding a darker side.Rena met Pitre while they were both bartenders, and he charmed her with his affection, making her feel like the center of his world. Everyone

Mr Emotionally Unavailable

Jan 21 2025 50 mins  
Welcome back to Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!—we’re back with regular programming and we’ve got a powerful episode to kick things off! Hosts Behk and LAH are joined by Katie, a woman who’s been through the emotional wringer in relationships that seemed to repeat the same painful patterns.In this raw and revealing conversation, Katie opens up about her marri

Behk & LAH Are Back!

Jan 14 2025 26 mins  
After a brief holiday hiatus, hosts Behk and LAH are back and ready to dive into the new year with fresh energy! In this return episode, they share exciting updates about the podcast and announce they'll be back with full episodes next week. The duo reflects on their own New Year's resolutions and intentions for 2025, discussing how to set meaningful goals for growth and healing. T

DJ Holy High Horse

Nov 19 2024 87 mins  
In the season two finale of Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!, hosts Behk and LAH go deeper than ever as Behk shares the story that started it all — her very first encounter with a narcissist. At just 15 years old, Behk found herself in a toxic relationship with a 21-year-old man she met online. What began as a seemingly innocent connection soon unraveled into a web