Secure Marriage Podcast

Feb 10 2025 300 ep. 18 mins 70
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Marriage can be tough—miscommunication, constant arguments, feeling distant, or struggling to rebuild trust after a breakdown can leave couples feeling hopeless. On the Secure Marriage Podcast, retired Professional Counselor, Paul Elmore and his wife, Shannon, draw from 30 years of marriage and 20 years of counseling experience to help you fight less, understand each other more, and rekindle intimacy. Whether you're navigating conflict or just want a stronger connection, their proven Secure Marriage Framework provides simple, actionable solutions. Listen, share, and subscribe to transform your relationship today!

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343: When should you start seeing progress in marriage therapy?

Feb 10 2025 25 mins  
If you’re feeling stuck or wondering if your marriage therapy is even working, this is the episode where we break down the hidden signs of progress most couples miss, share why slow growth is often the best kind, and reveal what to do if things feel stagnant. Don’t give up too soon—tune in and discover what breakthrough might be just around the corner!

342: Doing THIS Creates The Deepest Connection

Jan 27 2025 21 mins  
Ever wonder what truly creates the deepest connection in a relationship? In this episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, Shannon and I unpack the one practice that can completely transform how you and your spouse relate to each other. Drawing from my twenty years as a marriage therapist and thirty two years from our own marriage we’ll share a simple approach that builds intim

341: Don’t Let Comparison Become the Cancer in Your Relationship

Jan 14 2025 20 mins  
If you’re not careful, comparison can creep in and quietly start sabotaging your relationship. In this episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, Shannon and I dive into how measuring your relationship against yourself can erode trust, intimacy, and connection. Find out why comparison is more toxic than you think, how to stop it in its tracks, and how to protect your relationship f

340: Stop Chasing: How to Rebuild Attraction During a Marriage Separation

Jan 10 2025 14 mins  
Are you in the middle of a marriage separation? In this episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, Shannon and I talk about the one thing that’s pushing your spouse further away—and how to rebuild attraction the right way. Even though some of our suggestions are counterintuitive, we’ll show you how to focus on becoming the healthiest version of yourself and create the kind

339: Why Your Husband Thinks Your Feelings Are Always Wrong

Jan 07 2025 30 mins  
Feeling dismissed when you try to share your emotions with your husband? In this episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, Shannon and I unpack why your husband thinks your feelings are the “wrong” feelings—and, more importantly, how the two of you can bridge the gap. Our hope is that we can help you turn frustration into deeper connection and understanding and this transforma

Husbands, Stop Trying To Fix Your Wife

Jan 03 2025 24 mins  
Does your wife just want to vent, but you can’t resist jumping in to fix things? In this episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, Shannon and I tackle why your ‘helpful’ solutions might be backfiring—and what to do instead. Discover the surprising secret to truly supporting your wife, strengthening your connection, and avoiding unnecessary conflict. This game-changi

Six Steps to Fix A Struggling Marriage

Dec 06 2024 31 mins  
Is your marriage feeling more like a battleground than a partnership? On this episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, Shannon and I share the six simple steps that helped us rebuild trust, improve communication, and rediscover joy in our relationship. If your marriage feels stuck, we hope this episode offers a roadmap to lasting change.

Strengthen Your Relationship: How to Work Together as a Team

Dec 03 2024 22 mins  
“Do you and your spouse struggle to tackle challenges as a team? In this episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, Paul & Shannon share how they’ve learned to align their strengths and overcome ‘me versus you’ mindsets in their marriage. Discover the simple strategies that helped them turn conflict into collaboration—and how you can too!”

7 Magic Questions to Make You An Empathetic Husband

Nov 24 2024 21 mins  
If you’re a husband that struggles to emotionally connect with your wife, you’re going to want to download our 7 Magic Questions for Husbands. These questions will help you find the right words at the right time so your wife will feel loved and cared for.

My Wife Doesn’t Like Sex. Should I leave?

Nov 13 2024 20 mins  
It’s been a little bit since our last podcast episode, but… we’re back. In this episode, we delve into the complexities of intimacy, marriage expectations, and what might really be behind a wife’s lack of desire. Listen in as we offer surprising insights and actionable steps that could save a struggling marriage—and even reignite the passion you thought wa