The Narcissism Decoder

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This is a podcast that takes a comprehensive look at various facets of narcissism. In each episode, we will explore different psychoanalytic frameworks as we unravel the complexities that lie beneath the surface of narcissism and delve into the multitude of factors and behaviors that contribute to its formation.

Together, we'll equip ourselves with the tools needed to recognize, understand, and better relate to the narcissistic individuals in our lives. Stay tuned for a blend of compassionate insights, expert guidance, and compelling narratives that will reshape your perspective on narcissism.

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I Got Scammed! An Exploration into How This May Have Happened

May 07 2024 17 mins

Send us a Text Message.In this conversation, "I got scammed!" we explore the concept of grandiosity in narcissism. I discuss how grandiosity manifests in narcissistic individuals and the overlooked aspect of intolerable suffering. I illustrate how intolerable suffering plays out in the case of someone who was scammed. We look closely at the connection between grandiosity

What is Depression? An Investigation Into What Leads to Change

Apr 23 2024 19 mins

Send us a Text Message.What is Depression? In this episode, we discuss the role of aggression and 'bad introjects' in depression. We explore the origins of the critical and aggressive inner voice in depression, which often stems from early caregiver relationships. I emphasize how "bad" introjects develop and later in life the impact they have on fueling depressi

Navigating the Depths of Depression Among Teens: Implementing a Treatment Approach

Apr 09 2024 34 mins

Send us a Text Message.In this episode, I discuss a recent paper I presented on adolescent depression. I highlight the urgent need for understanding depression and effective treatment interventions for this growing mental health issue. I explore the role of "exclusion" and separation in healthy development and how, if not resolved, these painful feelings play a significan

Exploring the Core of Narcissistic Relationships: Anti-relating vs Genuine Discovery and Acceptance

Apr 02 2024 19 mins

Send us a Text Message.Takeaways· Self-other differentiation is critical in understanding narcissistic relationships.· Narcissistic relationships thrive when narcissistic needs are met.· The preference for illusion over reality can lead to destructive dynamics.· Embracing differences and engaging in genuine discovery of the "other" is essential for healthier relations

Treating Narcissism: How to Deal with A Narcissist

Mar 19 2024 17 mins

Send us a Text Message.In this episode, we discuss how to relate to a narcissist in your life without sacrificing your own well-being. We explore the dynamics of dealing with constant accusations, suspicion and invasive tracking measures. I emphasize the importance of taking these accusations seriously and understanding the projection and splitting that may be occurring. I suggest

Two “Narcissistic” Causes of Anxiety and a Psychodynamic Treatment Approach

Mar 05 2024 15 mins

Send us a Text Message.This episode explores the links between anxiety and narcissism. It begins by discussing shame stress and the inner critical (angry) voice as significant causes of anxiety. The conversation then delves into the necessity for a flawless self-image and how it triggers anxiety. The connection between anxiety, narcissism, and exclusion is explored through examples

Anxiety and Aggression: An exploration of the link between Anxiety and Aggression

Feb 27 2024 13 mins

Send us a Text Message.In this episode, we explore the connection between perfectionism and anxiety, highlighting how the inner critical voice fuels feelings of inadequacy and fear of judgment. I discuss the role of anger as a driver of anxiety and explain how the critical inner voice originates from early relationships with overly critical parental figures. I emphasize the importa

How to Take Charge of Your Anxiety: A Psychodynamic Approach

Feb 20 2024 17 mins

Send us a Text Message.In this episode, we explore the complex relationship between anxiety and shame stress. I highlight how shame stress often goes undetected and untreated in individuals dealing with narcissism. The manifestations of anxiety, including perfectionism, procrastination, and self-destructive thoughts are described and I emphasize how traditional approaches to anxiet

Parenthood and Parenting Problems: Establishing the Bond

Feb 13 2024 23 mins

Send us a Text Message.In this episode, we tackle common parental challenges like tantrums, defiance, and risky behavior. Traditional solutions often fall short, but by understanding the underlying causes—the impact of affective misattunement and rupture in the parent-child bond—we can foster healthier relationships. Rather than focusing solely on behavior, we explore tools and

Is it Depression ....or Narcissist Deflation?

Feb 06 2024 20 mins

Send us a Text Message.In this episode I explore the concept of narcissistic deflation and its potential misdiagnosis as depression. I highlight the importance of detecting and properly treating narcissistic deflation, which often goes unnoticed without the expertise of a trained professional in personality disorders. Shame states are identified as a key factor in this phenomenon,