Good Guys, Good Jobs, No Girl


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Apr 13 2024 33 mins   8

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Summary


In this episode, host Andrew Johnson and guest Ellen Sudderth discuss the topic of why good guys with good jobs struggle to attract women. They explore the idea that women are often more interested in creative types or struggling artists, even if they have less attractive faces. They also discuss the concept of sunken cost fallacy, where women may stay in relationships with unemployed men because they have invested so much time and effort into them. The conversation concludes with advice for men with nine-to-five jobs on how to be more successful with women, including having a creative hobby.


Keywords


good guys, good jobs, struggling artists, unemployed men, creative types, sunken cost fallacy, nine-to-five jobs, creative hobbies


Takeaways



  • Women are often attracted to creative types or struggling artists, even if they have less attractive faces.



  • The concept of sunken cost fallacy can cause women to stay in relationships with unemployed men because they have invested a lot of time and effort.



  • Men with nine-to-five jobs can improve their success with women by having a creative hobby or passion.



  • Simplicity and charisma are attractive qualities that can make up for a lack of traditional attractiveness or financial success.




Titles



  • The Power of Simplicity and Charisma



  • Advice for Men with Nine-to-Five Jobs




Sound Bites



  • "The sax gets them every time."



  • "You don't have to look good."



  • "Play that saxophone."




Chapters


00:00


Introduction: Good Guys, Good Jobs, and No Girls


04:09


Why Good Guys Can't Get the Girl


11:07


Why Women Choose Unemployed or Artist Types


26:24


Advice for Men with Nine-to-Five Jobs


32:35


Conclusion: The Power of Simplicity and Charisma